hey fellas,

I see a blonde HB8 everyday while i go to the gym, she is alwys at the cafe nearby, waiting for someone,
pls suggest some opener or routine that i can use

also,
how do i open gals who are reading something, in the bus, or any pubic place??

Hey dude

I think firstly try to be observational, in other words, analyse the situation. A girl waiting at a cafe on a regular basis will more than likely be hooking up with her guy. Given the scenario that its on a regular basis at the same time. I tend to do the same thing with my regulars.

Secondly, if you want to open, then it wouldnt be the greatest situation. The fact that your going to the gym suggests that you probably wouldnt be in your best groomed state.

But for the opener, in a situation as such, I think most guys will agree it needs to be an indirect. If shes reading a book, comment or ask about the book. You need to switch to comfort after opening. So why not try to combine the two by opening and asking about her book at the same time. This shows three things:

1) Your opening - Your simply being polite and asking on her opinion. I doubt she would refuse to answer you. If she doesnt, shes probably just an anal reader! Cut your losses and move on..

2) Your conveying that your more than a gym monkey by showing some intrest in literature. It allows her to see a little into your personality. Just be cautious to keep the subject on the book at first, not her.

3) The fact that you read as well, will allow her to be a little more comfortable. Given that you both share a similar hobby. Similarities build comfort. Comfort then leads to attraction.

From there on, transition to where ever you would like to take it.

If you see this particular girl on a regular basis. I think maybe take it slowly and say hi every no and again. If you blatently hit on her and she rejects you, its going to be fairly embarrasing each time you see her there on.

Hope this helps.

am sure this will help, but buddy, these are 2 diff situations, the blonde is not the one reading, she is just looking around,
she is from a different country, and today i found out she waits for her guide,
the reason am so over it is coz she is damn hot,

but gr8 advice anyways!