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PostPosted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 5:04 am 
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Hi my name is Daniel. I've just recently moved back to NYC. I've studied quite a bit of pickup and numerous self improvement resources, mainly bits and pieces of Xuma, alpha man, deangelo's three major courses and of course a little bit of speed.

I feel that the real game is where these guys led me, which is to the basis of their teachings, the self improvement fields that embody their technology. I've studied NLP by itself, as well as influence, body language, nonverbal communication, a smattering of female mindset stuff and a number of other courses of study.

I don't think about them so much anymore, as what i've learned is mostly internalized and a lot of it i can't really turn off.

Here's the deal though:


I used to be a fucking fatass. Now I'm not. I'm not where I was last summer but am still looking good in clothes ;) *ting*

When I was fat, I was quite ugly in the face. Now that I'm not, and I have a fantastic barber, I'm really looking very handsome. (think it turned out quite nicely, actually :)

Also, I never used to have a sense of fashion. I had some style but you wouldn't have been able to tell. Now I'm REALLY fashionable and have style out my ass. In fact I'm interning for an english tailor (bespoke all the way) currently and learning the art.

I've been noticing, since I lost the weight and got the style, women that I find, quite frankly, to be stunning are checking me out with growing frequency and signalling attraction in various, very subtle ways. Sometimes they try to start conversations with me! My confidence, aura, posture and body language and style speak to this. I'm certain that makes me attractive to even more women than the ones that let on.

I can sorta break the ice, like ask a simple little question, or ask for directions, pretending I don't know what train to get on.

this is where the problems come in. I'd like to know how to take these little extremely favorable moments and expand it into a conversation without tripping myself up.

I can have some fantastic conversation with women, with fair consistency, but its very hard for me to get to that point.

Help me guys. I suppose you could say I have approach anxiety, and trouble with attraction. The best thing for me to really learn to do this is to get actual hands-on help. Once i get past these few sticking points I believe there is nothing really stopping me.

I'm pretty certain I could meet a few new, hot faces every day approaching only these girls that are checking me out and subtly or accidentally signalling their initial attraction there ... HELP ! ! !

In any case you'll meet an interesting guy, and possibly gain a super solid wing man. Help get me out of this rut!

Feel free to email me, or reply here.

Best regards,

D.M.G.


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