Hey guys first I want to say I respect all those who are making an effort to improving their relationship(s) with women by going to forums, reading e-books, watching videos, etc. I was that way and it certainly helped a lot. I was there and now that I have found an amazing girlfriend, I want to give you some tips to help you on your journey. This is mainly aimed at those looking for a girlfriend:

-Focus on DAY GAME! Trust me on this. It might be more intimidating but if you want to have a real relationship with a girl your odds are highest by meeting her (by chance) during the day. If you are looking for a girl to hook up with then night game is certainly fine, but the odds are MUCH worse that it will develop into a long relationship.

-Approaching: Forget openers! Don't go up and say "can I get your opinion (blah blah)" or "who do you think lies more (blah blah)." Canned openers are lousy and girls will know there is an ulterior motive. Situational openers are KING! A simple funny neg like "I thought I was the only person who liked (whatever)" or something NATURAL will work BEST. The key isn't what you say at all, but how you deliver it. SMILE and look her in the eyes!

-Closing: I like the idea of going on an instant date when you meet someone, but getting a number isn't bad at all. Just give her a reason to hang out with you like going to see a comedy show (works well trust me) and it will be easy to get the number.

-Overall Thoughts: If you are just relaxed and subtly go up to girls and just spark up a conversation you'll do great. Do not make it seem forced. Never forget girls want to be swept off their feet. Do this as often as you can and don't come up with excuses and you'll find the right girl before you know it.

Good luck to everyone and I hope you are as lucky as I am.

Good advice mate, I agree especially regarding the canned openers. Natural is king.

"I've been a miner for a heart of gold."

Thanks man