3 weeks in to college i met this HB which i consider a 9 or 10. I started talking to since week 1 so i know her we r friends i been flirting with her and stuff. We eat lunch together and I just try to be cocky and funny around her.

Couple days later i asked her to go to a muesum with me it went really good i asked her to go to the movies right after. I picked a scary movie so i know i can make a move in the scary parts. At one of the scary part, i asked her r u scared? than i just reach my arm and pull her towards me... i dont know if she is comfortable with it... so i lay my hand palms up on my lap just to c if she is welling to grab it and she did:). So after the movie we held hands for awhile... but i kinda mess it up because i accidently mention "what happen if your mom see us like this..."(holding hands) than she let go of my hand . Anyways, i took her to a sushi bar for dinner. I actually did some homework and found out that she like sushi lol. It was like a surprise, because i didnt tell her we going to eat sushi i just told her if ur hungry i know exactly where to go lol... Overall, i think she had fun. Idk if these r hints but when I brag about myself like "i'm good at soccer" she kept saying "u should teach me how to play soccer sometime" or "i know how to make sushi" she said " u should make me some sushi over at ur place" etc...


So thats my 1st date with her what do u guys think?

The next day, we didnt talk too much because she had to leave early to shop with her mom or whatever... she said she is gonna call me that day but she never called... and i didnt call her cause i dont want to be all needy and stuff. On facebook, that black guy offers his number to her and ask her for a walk and she said "we could work something out" and the black guy he didnt come to class today but the thing is she remember to ask him why he didnt come to class today? but forgot to call me? Later they went out for the walk...


Honestly, i admit i am a needy and easily jealous person (plz dont judge me lol) but i try my best to hided in anyways. i'm just kinda confused... does she likes me? do i ask her to BE my gf to make the relationship clearer? because the black dude defintly have some interest in her and i dont want to get jacked... i was planning to ask her to be my gf on the next date... do u think thats too early?

Anyways, i asked her on a 2nd date already and we r going to ice skating... (i didnt tell her we r ice skating cause its gonna be a surprise) plus i can be alot more physical with her. So can anyone give me some valuable pointers on my second date? what should i do?

Sorry i know thats too much stuff but i know u guys can process it because U GUYS R PUAs!!


thanks in advance!

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You should go ice skating and then grab some popcorn. If you wanna go somewhere cute that's fine but this girl wanted you and you didn't kiss her so she's thinking "why isn't this guy interested in me?"

There is a line for that question and you definitely crossed it. That line decides whether or not she can see herself with you. The line you want to be on says "why isn't the guy interested in me? I will make him see me so he will be interested in me." The side of the line you ARE on says "why isn't this guy interested in me? He Is such a boy. He can't make a move. He makes me feel unwanted. Someone else will fill that hole for me." You need to hop back on the other side, then take control and let her know what you want.

You should go ice skating, then go straight back to your place so you can make popcorn,throw a movie on, grab a blanket, and hook up on the couch. And if you had a better opportunity and were smart enough to take it, and kissed her before, let things get physical fast.

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Thanks for the advice but i heard from other PUA they said just keep dating her until she bring up the bf and gf issue? also i been really physical with her thats only the 1st date i mean i didnt get a kiss close but i defently made moves like putting my arm around her and held her hand isnt that show her i have interest?

thanks

she definitely gives enough IOIs . Study up on Mystery's method called the kiss gambit. The premise is when the moment is right and you say 'do you want to kiss me' and there is a reply for every response to make it un-rejectable. study up on it, i'm sure it's out there. you should get her to be your girlfriend before that black guy steals her. just sayin' .