what title says..

im thinking to open with: hey its kinda wierd that i / we looked at u/eachother so many times but i/we still dont know your/eachother name.

and then i guess she would say her name and i mine but how would i continoue from there? what could i talk to her or say from there? we go at one same class in college


any other tips?

I would just mouth the words "stop staring at me" until she comes over. I would also look at her wide eyed so she laughs and knows you're not being serious. In other words blatantly stare at her.

If she comes over just jokingly ask her to stop undressing you with her eyes and tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable. Tell her you're trying to meet hot chicks and shes distracting you. At the very least she should take things to the next level and kiss you already. She's been staring at you long enough.

so glad i thought of this. maybe i'll try it myself tonight.


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Nice Ders - I'll give that one a try!

Another technique would be just to smile, raise your glass, and acknowledge her. You do not want to move over to her just yet - it makes you look too desperate. wait ten minutes and make a laid back move. Remember, if she was checking you out earlier she already likes what she sees.

heres a link to a video by cajun.

he talks about when eye contact occurs.

hope this helps!

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woa guys, hold on. You are forgetting the three second rule. You've already screwed it up by waiting so long and over-analyzing.

Just go over to her as soon as possible and say, "clearly we were looking at each other. I must tell you, I was looking at you because you are cute. So tell me, why were you looking at me?

I'd love to hear her answer to this.

Traditionally, PUAs do ascribe to the three second rule. You have three seconds after you make eye contact to make a move or she'll think its creepy that you're staring at her.

However, considering that she keeps smiling at you, she probably thinks you're cute and not creepy. My suggestion here is to be direct, since you already have value here. Just go up to her and start a conversation. I would probably use an opinion opener. It doesn't need to be a great one even since she already is giving you IOIs.

My own feeling is that you should never tell a girl that you want to talk to her because she's cute. It makes you seem shallow, and makes you seem as though you're easily impressed by beauty. If you're going to give her a compliment, I would pick out one of: Hair, shoes, eyes in that order. Be genuine. Don't make it up. Women can smell these things.