I don't like doing night game alone nor do I like relying on others to come with me. Many nights where I wanted to go sarge at night but everyone bailed, so I want to really learn daygame so I don't have to reply on other people.

Day 1

Pondering for about a week now how I was going to do this properly. Finally just said fuck i lets go out today and talk to people.

Started with some good opinion openers but only felt comfortable with people who are

a. By themselves
b. Not Moving

If they were moving it felt totally unnatural to just go up ask for an opinion it just doesn't seem to be smooth at all. So I started observing things they wore which caught my attention and I asked them where the got it.

Im focusing right now on opening to the point where its automatic, I'm not really concerned about getting numbers or closes from this exercise. But it's weird to me, rarely do I ever wake up and look forward to opening at daytime. but I feel I should. If I wanted to get better at basketball I would go practice my shot everyday. But I don't go daygaming everyday it's strange.

Either way what I've learned today

1. Approaching people who are alone is easier
2. In order to stop moving sets I prefer to use something they are wearing to open

I know many will so go direct, but I just can't pull it off right now without seem totally ackward and a complete liar.


Dim Sum

There's not much risk, if any, of rejection when you're practicing a sport...

When you are going out to socialize, you are putting your entire life on the line. This could be the person you have kids with, and who will carry on your name. You have much more to lose.

not to add any more pressure haha

I am also working on mall game ; i think being more direct its best, with a bit of NLP i havent field tested it but when i do ill give results and let you know if its what i taught id be

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Difficulties are things that show a person what they are.” Epictetus

Today did not go as well but I'm still glad I made it out. My energy was very needy and I found myself looking around too much. I mostly approached people who were not moving but did not feel my confidence was solid enough. I did not feel the motivation to and do more and more sets. I stopped around 10 my performance was not satisfactory but I did learn some things.

1. Energy and confidence is of the utmost importance.
2. they Believe what you believe
3. You frame has to be extremely strong because you are in the presence of many others who do not share your frame.
4. felt creep want to get rid of that

Next day I will go out with more confidence and a stronger frame as my focus.

am starting day game soon, iv put it off for a long time as its my worst aspect. Need some more advice before i start.

The main Advice i can give you is motivation , which is what im lacking and im emotionally drained i found out that you dnt need women in ure life to make u happy but rather u neeed to find what it is ure missing

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Difficulties are things that show a person what they are.” Epictetus

yeah i'm gonna make it a point to keep pushing, going for a more playful and funny opener tomorrow

Okay, first things first... for most people, this is hard. Like, really hard. This doesn't improve overnight, it's a skillset that takes a lot of time and patience to master through trial-and-error. You're warming up to strangers in a short period of time. But it affects you positively in more ways than you think. And it should be fun... like the better mood you're in, the more natural it's going to feel and the more confident you'll feel about doing it. Important to get it right straight off the bat (opener), but that doesn't mean putting undue pressure on yourself. I do Day Game more more than night, and keep having lots of breakthroughs and insights along the way.

I prefer day game, I think it is easier.

here is how it goes.

1. Open, make it easy, "hey whats up?" is good enough

2. fluff for a few minutes, yes you need conversation skill for day game

3. Create a comfort zone (a mental comfort zone, it's an NLP thing)

4. Manipulate her comfort zone and put yourself in it, relate yourself to it

5. Use that to number close

6. Leave, don't drag day game out too much

7. Call or text her, set up a date pretty soon, you want her to keep you in her comfort zone

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Slywalker

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Please share some of your insights. Yes it does seem pretty hard but I keep telling myself "I'm never gonna see them again anyways so I've got nothing to lose" Yes my last two opens have been positive girls laugh. The only negative I would say that if I don't approach I beat myself out for letting an opportunity pass an negative 2nd guessing talk creeps in. I find that when I do open an it's generally positive it gives me a good charge to open the next one. Yes it seems hard but what choice do i have?

HAHAHAHA what happened to the DON'T CARE ABOUT THE OUTCOME attitude?
I don't get it? You say you need motivation to do the approaches but at the same time you need motivation from other sources, I dont get it....



I have done some day game too, now trying to transition into direct day game, cz like you said I had the same feeling when I was trying to do indirect, like this is creepy and why the fuck would they talk for like 10 mins in day time and plus its such a drag, untill you transition to oh your actually pretty coll wanna hang out sometime..., maybe its all in my head, but I felt that direct was much more reasonable, cz you just go straight to the point, that you like her and want to get to know her....Now what really helped me were Sinn's Day Game Program, which he breaks down really well, get it, it's really good plus her breaks down both direct and indirect day game and also the short youtube clips of Soul from Love Systems, who does direct day approaches and is really smooth....

Cheers

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V3nu

Um I'm just explaining the reason that people get apprehensive when doing something like this as compared to practicing a sport.

any idea how to do direct game from a woman walking towards you? Will that seen too fake? saying that only seeing her for a few secs?

wait til she passes you take a few more steps, turn around, and come up from behind her like you would normally.