Got Oneitis, but shes in reach, just need some help.



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 5:56 am 
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yo fellow pua's im in some need of help.

so theres this girl ive known for a while, at first, i was very shhy and i fucked up my 1st attempt to get at her because it was so awkward.

so now 1 year later, i grew out of my shell,& i came back and im spittin game, but the bad part is, i had to transfer schools.

but meanwhile that yaer, there was some other guy trying to get at her too, so that means i have competition.

i think that i could get at her but hes majorly in my way, he has more time to spend with her, and i see her like once or twice a week, while he can see her everyday during school.

but i know that i can pull this off, because i have history wit her.

im trying to win her heart legit, if yall know what im saying, like a long term relationship.

so tmr, theres a movie viewing after school, and im pretty sure that "other guy" is going to be there.

how do act there, it may be awkward if im there and hes already sitting with her,

need your help, hope you guys feel me on this one


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 6:26 am 
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First off nobody is in your way. If you make a good impression she'll ditch him to be with you. So your goal is to be your best dynamic, charming, outgoing self during this event. Be the life of the party , talk to everyone, acknowledge her but definatley own your space. So what if he sits next to her during a movie. She'll be looking for you afterward.

Never be discouraged because someone else also has eyes for the same girl. If she hot there are going to a lot A LOT of guys that are interested. That just means you step up your game.

Remember your scarcity is an advantage. If hes at school with the same old "how are you today" she will be refreshed to be around your energy. It also gives you time between interactions to strengthen your game. Hope that helps


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 7:04 am 
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dude, this is just my opinion: ur prolly in high school and really wanna be with this chick. like really bad. but i dont think it's even worth it...why? cuz ur young and confusing urself. LTR already man?

as far as my advice:

dont hype urself up for this 1 event bro. she might or might not be with that other dude. she might be with her friends. it doesn't matter. i see it going down like this:

Branded: hey whats up?
HB: hey
Branded: you enjoying urself blah blah blah
HB: blah blah blah
Branded: that sounds tight. well shit, i got a bunch of friends waiting on me. but we don't chill enough. (throw ur phone in her face) (not literally of course) put in ur digits and i'll try and squeeze a get together this weekend or something.
HB: sounds great


if u already got the number, then just tell her you dont chill enough, false time constraint, set it up, then leave. boom


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 3:17 pm 
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aha yea im in high school, but i dont have to game her, because i already am in the zone where i could be getting at her.

I actually began PuA to forget about her, but now shes just my only prize. im already over half the road with her..

I got her number, we text very often, she puts many "haha's and :]'s" if that means anything or thats just girls textonomy...

im just in the battlefield of love, where i gotta show her that she would rather be with me than anyone.

She knows i like her, its obvious, i do not care as long as she gets the message.

oh and a dance is coming up, like next weekend, what do i gotta do this week to make a surefire ways she goes with me.

And LTR is what "shes" looking for too, you can tell because in my eyes shes one of the most beutiful girls in the school and just has been waiting for the right one!

deeper than the oceann.
thanks fellow pua's i really appreciate it.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 7:20 pm 
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Ah High school crushes, listen bro at least you admit to the oneitis because it almost hurts to read you post shit like, "And LTR is what "shes" looking for too, you can tell because in my eyes shes one of the most beutiful girls in the school and just has been waiting for the right one!"

Just tell her to meet you at the movies or a restaurant and just tell her how you feel, and be a man about it, and if she doesn't feel the same way move along. Your to young to spend all this attention on one chick.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 12:19 am 
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Chejin,

do yourself a favour and isolate yourself from this girl. If you've realised it's infatuation or oneitis then let it pass through your system.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 3:10 am 
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why pass when i have a chance??

i met all of her friends and they all like me.

this is a oneitis that could if i play my cards right come true.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 9:13 am 
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Hi Chejin,

I can see your point as I have been in similar situations like this.If you're insistent on trying with her then ensure that you don't spend too much time and effort on this one girl.Also ensure that you make a move quickly and get it over and done with. It will either work or not. Sometimes you have to crash and burn so you have experienced it.Also if you do not do anything and let her go you may always wonder what if you had tried.Your choice. Hope it goes well whatever way you choose


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