I'm doing more and more day game approaches. I've noticed that a lot of times there seems to be this instant sexual energy. You know when you say "hey" and you see the eyes light up and there is a sudden energy, like they are delightfully surprised you said something. Well, in these instances, I've started getting a bit of a boner. Not full on, but halfie. I keep eye contact, so I don't think they notice, but does this happen to anyone else? Any suggestions on trying to keep it down? I've tried wearing breifs, but they are way too uncomfortable to wear anytime but working out.

I've had this problem in the past however not in the approach stage.

With girls I was really into I would get turned on during our comfort stages, when we were really connecting, it was anticipation of what's to come.

It will slow down and stop once you relax and become more comfortable with those situations. Practice.

I found that a quick distraction was usually a good method to cool it, read a nearby sign in your head while at the mall, back of a drink bottle or placemat in pub/clubs etc. Always worked for me.

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well yeah that has happened to me before i felt this kind of electricity go up my spine and i could see the effect it had on her and i just couldn't explain it.

For me it was some kind of connection, if that could be isnstantaneously created in anyone it could really attract anyone

Well you know, It isn't at all a bad thing that you are getting that energy. Have you tried a more Gunwich type approach? If you convey her your sexual frame, she will feel it too. Then the stiffy doen't matter at all. You could go shock and awe on her and tell her it's her fault and to do that to you and so forth. Do you know that technique?

If you just want to hide it a bit, tight boxers/loose pants are the way to go I guess.

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I read up on Gunwich, Shock and Awe, and apocolypse opens. I think I'll give these a try next time I get this energy. Thanks for the idea.