| Ok so I know when most of you read the title you probably thought that it should be a no brainer, and that you shouldn't even need to use game on college chicks at parties. But here's the thing, I go to a small, private Catholic school, where girls have extreme bitch shields when at parties, especially the super crowded ones. I have talked to many girls at parties in other locations, and most of them truly are quite friendly. However, at parties the bitch shield is strong.
I am new to the community and have been working on opening for quite some time now. My day game is pretty solid (well, at least for opening and being able to DHV to an extent). Whether walking around campus, or at a grocery store I can usually successfully open girls and keep a conversation going, occassionally forming a time bridge by getting a number (I'm still working on improving with this). My main sticking point, ironically, has been at parties on campus. Again, most of you may think this should be easy, but my college is different. The girls here are smart, and not slutty, two traits I like in women, however it also has a huge downside. The bitch shield is so strong I usually cannot get past an opener without getting shot down. I don't let it get to me, I try again throughout the night but nothing seems to work. I have tried direct and indirect openers of all sorts at these parties, but few seem to work. The only limited success I've had is when the parties were small, but most of the parties I go to are packed. Loud music, very little space to manuever.
Any advice on being able to get past the bitch shield would be appreciated.
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