this is an opinion opener, but it's not a fake story. you pretty much ask the girl if she thinks you're a player and then describe your lifestyle.

say things like

"i hang out with alot of girls"

"but i don't kiss and tell"

"i do treasure making a connection with girls"

"i do more than try to get in there pants"

"i make sure if the girl wants an exlusive relationship, instead of just sleeping with her and then sleeping around"

what do you think?

not field tested and i don't plan on it because my games pretty tight already. feel free to test or reply.

most girls think im a player anyway so these are hepful for me when i get asked that question or labelled?

However i woudn't recomend getting straight onto the opinion of weatehr your a player not as your going to be working the room and multiple sets =]

Nah, don't use this in any situation.
You come off as someone who just tries to validate their behavior.
Don't even use this if you get accused of being a player - then you're trying to qualify and justify yourself to her.

true true. yes and calling yourself a player doesn't exactly look like you're trying to validate yourself. i asked this question on a forum in a simular manner and a lot of girls where like "i don't know i never meet a guy like you" so it got me thinking. it's more like subtly telling them you're high value.