Hey guys,
Last night I went out clubbing with some mates as it was one of my friend's birthday's. When we came out of the club I met my friend's girl mate ( HB 7). Anyway we chatted quite a bit and was a bit playful with one another but nothing more than that. I know she has facebook and I want to talk to her on there. Only the thing is I'm not really sure the best to go about this as I don't want to placed in the 'friends zone'. I want to 'game' her and get to the point where I can take her on a date.

My question really is I guess what would be best way to open this girl ? Would a poke be okay or is that a little weird ? Or should I send her message, or add her as a friend and write on her wall? Online sarging is all a bit new to me!

Really appreciate your help on this one guys.

Cheers

-- ** Enigma_7 **

Assuming the culture isn't THAT different where you're from, you can just add her. Then message something funny (callback humor works great here) or IM her if she's online. You'll stay out of the friend zone as long as you a) flirt, b) do push-pull, and c) kino escalate when you see her.

I would advise against asking her on a date, especially via facebook. Instead, run solid game and then invite her to hang out with you and your friends. Preferably on the phone. If you've got enough compliance, have her hang out with just you. When you see her, kino early and continue escalating. Make sure you QUALIFY e.g. hit on her for legit, non-physical reasons.

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Be playful neg some of her photos on facebook.

1) Ask for her number on facebook or click on contacts and if she put her number in it will be on there.

2) Don't post on her wall asking for a date because all her friends will see and it might be a bit embarassing for her (no offense)