how should i go about opening girls at a house party? there will probably be alcohol, probably dancing, i'm not sure what else.
i'm invited to a bday party this weekend and i want to have some ideas of how to open/hook up with girls there. any suggestions or field-tested openers?

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You know what!! When there's a party , with few invitations , you're in fact already preselected, girls cannot reject you when you're opening them, you're in the same party.So that's not a big deal. Just a " Hi, I'm...." is necessary.
Just be fun , etc etc , and be the man of the night.You can also open them , by asking their opinion on something, no problem. All I wanted to say , is that you must concentrate on the other part of the game , and not on the open phase, 'cause, in this situation, nothing easier.

as above i find this the EASIST way to open girls ect. house partys,weddings, anything that is invite only. . . when its a smallist party it even easier.

i like to make sure im noticed 1stly as soon as im in the place i be sure to make a few people shout my name as i walk in ect. so all the girls you dont no seem to think who is this guy/i want to knw his guy!

nearly as quick as i said hi to me pals and am in a group im dropping straight into a story from some experiance i had somewhere. when im seen to be the one telling the storys and makein peole keep their concentration on me people outside the group will be drawn to looking ver at you. now by this point ive already scanned the room and seen who id like to be with, so as im mid story i be sure to look around only for split seconds at a time and guarentee to make eye contact with the target and just giv a lil smile! as im mid story she knows i cant approach her then so she is then constantly looking over to see if im free to go and opener her or the kind. when im ready ill go over and use the best line of so how do you no . . . . and go from there


thats how i usually do this but im new to the PUA thing so if any guys would like to pick this apart for me and see if im doing anything rong feel free!!

Mr.B

Ahh house parties, this is def my favorite venue for picking up girls, its not as loud as the bar or club and people are just generally more laid back. Like everyone said that fact that you are at the party means your a already pre-selected.

My advice is to plan in advance, if you are allowd to bring a friend, try and get a girl to go with you, just not as a date. that way you DHV right off the bat as you walk in the door.

Dont get too drunk, parties are fun but too much alch will cause your game to suffer.
your routines shouldnt stray to much from your normal stuff, the only thing working with you on this is that instead of approaching complete strangers , everyone at the party is interlinked somehow by a common friend, so chances are you going to be introduced to these woman.

That being said maybe you want to think about areas of A2 and A3 and so on as opposed to the initial approach, i find that were i begin to lose steam when at parties is that awkward were the convo drops off about 2 min into a set.

good luck and write a field report!!

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