ok so i was at the club last night dancing and doing my thing and i would notice people going up behind girls or infront of them and saying something in there ear and the girl would laugh and they would start dancing. My thought is that it was a funny neg or something along those lines about the girls dancing... Anyone know anything about this?

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Haha man to be honest it's probably nothing to do with her dancing. How do you even neg someone that is dancing? Psht. Don't even bother with neg theory. You want a good opener - try this with a big smile, squared shoulders and your head held high: "HEY! DANCE WITH ME!"

Alternatively if you wanna go the funny route just be like, "I am SO relieved!" She'll say "Why?" and you respond with "Cause I ALMOST wore the same thing tonight!"

And then just START dancing.

Done.

It's not what you say. It's how you say it.

Good luck to you sir.

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I think dancing or trying to get a gurl to dance with you is more of an nonverbal approach ... you should approach them with alot of energy and say "Lets dance and just follow there lead and dance along with them instead of approaching them not dancing and formally asking ... but I think energy body lanuage and key when approach a gurl for a dance ....

What could you say to a girl or a group of girls who are dancing ? How do you approach girls who are dancing. I am new to the PUA world and need your advise.

well, when they are dancing I stop one of them, usualyy a few others also stop.. I say: Wow!, i KNOW i HAVE BIG ENERY AROUND ME! But as they have high energy around them, you should have a big energy also. So use many non verbal energy, such as using your arms... Use many kino in the beginning, touch her shoulder many times and I you should test the psychic KIno of mehow..

Whispering in their ear, hmmmmm... I would tell her: you look like a flush puppy, bet you cant dance, can ya? When you want to increase your ability to actually dance with her, you shouldl create social value by talking more sets in the venue and they have noticed..

Cheers

Dancin is all a matter of timing, going up behind a girl and just dancin with ya is probably not the best way. When im crusin the dancefloor, like some of the other guys have said, be high energy. Go to a club where they play music u like so u know the songs, i find makin eyecontact with a girl and mouthin the words to a song is usually a great way to get her dancin with ya. If your not comfortable with the song or whatever and you find your target, get out on the dancefloor, walk by, bump into her n go OW! Gotta watch where you put that thing girl, theres other people dancin here too! (say it light heartedly) and she will usually giggle and then once shes facin u just keep dancin, good eye contact and just move in.