Hello there,

I've only recently found out about this 'PUA' thing, and I'm finding it so interesting.

I've always been succesful with girls, never had a problem speaking to them, but from the things I've been Reading on these forums I understAnd there is so much more I could learn.

I've been working in a bar/club for a month now so I get the chAnce to talk to beautiful women all the time, single girls, 2 sets, 3 sets ect..

But I can't help but noticing I'm missing out on so many oppotunities.. I'll have a chat and a laugh with girls, but it always just leads to me serving their drinks.. Got some numbers and dates... But no where near as many as I should be getting working in a place like I do.

I need some tips/lines.. Things that will get these girls thinking about me/number close or whatever.

Sometimes I find it hard just blatently askig for a number because my girlfriend has these very mythical ways of finding out who I speak to, so I have to be sneaky.

Thank you.

maybe its just me.. or maybe its because summer is coming....

dont take me the wrong way... if you want to do the MLTR thing.. then be my guest... go forth and prosper...
but that being said...

a core value of PUA is to "leave the girl better than when you found her"

SO... kinda guessing thats not gonna go so well for your current GF...

this brings up two points...
1) women have crazy intuition... sometimes its crazy what they will pick up on...and body language queues cant be hidden... lie detectors are a perfect example... That may be a bit of your problem...

2) If you want to do pickup.. why not tell your GF what your doing? if thats the direction you want to go.. then go that way.. but do it with a bit of honor.. and let the girl know that your out to get numbers, chat up girls and what not...

its just a thought...

beyond that, you have to be carefull running game where you work... it could get you in serious trouble... as will being to direct with a customer. it could get you fired.
I usually dont advise gaming where you work just for that reason, but since you work in a bar its slightly more socially acceptable to hit on the ladys your serving. just remember, sometimes they are just going to see you as the server and nothing more.

JMT,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

I am sure most of us wish we were in your position. The fact is you might not realize it but you are in control of the situation if your serving them drinks. The thing about the game is eventhough ur a bar person you gotta show that your attractive as well.

How about you joke around with them. When they call for drinks, get the drinks and go "Where you the guys who asked for these" they will say "yes" then pretend to drink from one and go "oooh that tastes good"

I don't know just throwing soem ideas around

Hi,

yes, i think that business and pleasure don't mix so I would work on your game at other times. Otherwise it could affect your job. You could get into trouble and a seemingly inocuous comment said at the wrong time to a HB could land you in hot water.

You will know yourself what you can get away with. But personally I have made the decision to leave game for my free time.

Good Luck!!!