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| HealthyArtist | PostPosted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 4:54 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Feb 11, 2009 2:30 am Posts: 3 | | I'm having a horrible time getting started at daygame. I just can't seem to get up the "nerve" to approach in public. It's driving me up a fucking wall because I want to master this and meet women in the process because while out and about, there are not constraints like there are at work. I feel like I need a coach to get a "jumpstart." Does anyone know of a coach in the San Diego area? Thanks.
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| Exhumed | PostPosted: Sun Apr 05, 2009 10:18 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Mar 21, 2009 8:10 pm Posts: 30 | | I've had problems with that too but I've seen the question answered many times and the solution has worked for me: just start by saying hi to the hot girls, strike up conversations with random people...just be silly, walk up to a girl and say something, just make an effort to say it with a confident tone. Then if you get
rejected, it's alright because you were just screwing around, so it's less pressure to approach.
Just a confident "Hi!!" or any number of silly random questions...that's how I started.
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| bunchy2629 | PostPosted: Fri Apr 10, 2009 4:46 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Apr 10, 2009 9:10 am Posts: 5 | | thats a good one.... but about the random stuffff?"
what kind of random stuff can u say!? compliments on there looks!?
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| flipsider | PostPosted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 9:19 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Apr 13, 2009 3:30 pm Posts: 28 Location: new jersey | | i definitely have this same problem approaching women
the other week i had picked up the mystery game and read it completely i went up to five girls in the mall but non of my openers were good so i feel pushed back.
i'm still walking past girls and saying hi and to strangers its not a problem.
I need some help in this area too
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| Mr E | PostPosted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 10:06 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Tue Mar 24, 2009 10:22 pm Posts: 333 Location: Canaries | | Jesus, there is this babe, she is around my age. and she is always walking around the park with her mum, jesus, i mean she is a hb10., real class job and I am jogging and regularly see her. dont get much IOI but would sure like to walk up to her and chat- today saw her again and was about a foot away from her. Her body is like unbelievable. again, i want to talk to her but i feel a bit "odd" just goign up to a total stranger and start talking. It just kinda feels "odd"
although i guess, next time i could ask the time, but after that, continuing the conversation is what really feels horrible and embarrassig for me. and anyway, sometimes i feel like, fuck it, why bother? nothing is going to come of it anyway,
Fuck sometimes, you just feel like it isn't worth the anxiety of coming out of your comfort zone.
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