So there's this girl in my school, and I think she's a freshman, I'm a junior. So I pass her alot in the hallways on the way to class.. accidentally of course. She also happens to sit a table away from me at lunch, but I'm not in any of her classes... I don't know how to approach her so that she'll have a good first impression of me...can someone help me out cause she's really cute and I don't want to mess it up.

p.s.- I'm not really good at talking to girls..

hahaha dude i have the same problem man

i keep telling myself to randomly just say hi to her because we always look at each other in the hall then walk off and she also is really cute

and in the same situation as urs..

so uhm...i feel ya man

but seriously

id just say hi to her in the hall

Hey Im a senior in high school. I dont want to get into a lot of details about who I am and whatever, but basically I go to two highschools this year (at the same time) so its really wierd and whatever. But heres the thing.

One of most important things for PU is CONFIDENCE. without that you have nothing. Keep telling yourself that she will accept you and unconsciously itll work out. And if not with her, fuck it! Find a better and hotter girl! Open her man. Just be yourself and use a canned opener (even if its not you yet, it will help you out a lot). if shes next to your table make some bullshit up about how your friends think her groups not very interesting and you are willing to prove them wrong. Itll show her you have a mind of your own 1) and 2) you get to talk to her. then just ask her about normal stuff like school, her friends (you want to become friends with her friends). neg her saying to one of her friends "does this girl have any manners?" and tell her to be nice and introduce you to the others. ideally do this with a friend, it makes the process a lot less painful and if you ever run out of material, your friend can help you out. Just keep the initial conversation to a minimum so she knows who you are, and you have left a good impression with her. You know you will see her again and then in between classes in the hall just talk it up and ask her out at some point once you sense both of you are comfortable. KINO too. so when you see her again give her a hug, kiss her cheek. do something and be ballsy.

best of luck.

thanks alot Warrier that was great advice that will really help me out alot. really helpful i was clueless till now but now I know what to do.
thanks nuke101 for the help too.

Yea good post warrier that was awesome

im also a senior lol

hell yes to graduation! danizdeman have you pulled it off yet? and good luck bro let us know how it goes

I guess it is all about confidence...
what would help for us high school'rs are some high school openers and approaches
for high school pick up....
ty warriar great routine

dude warrier ur awesome man, like im a highschooler but i go alot of parties in colleges (cause of siblings) but the second im back in my native habitat at highschool my skillz go down the shitter, ill try ur technique after spring break and see wat happens... thanks man

moony

Monspe I totally feel you man like I'm not even kidding. At my main High school im not very popular and PU doesnt work. Like seriously. so I dont even bother and keep more to myself. But at the secondary high school I go to I'm a lot more open and I just have a lot better of a time and goof off and everything. Social proof or status of just being a jokester and making fun of everyone is what makes me popular at that school. So just HAVE FUN haha no other way to put it. I'm just hella excited for college new opportunity and much better to PU like actually. In high school most of it comes down to day game.

Dan i forgot to mention another good line to use with her once your done talking to her and her friends is say to them do you mind if i borrow you friend (and grab your targets hand) and take her back to YOUR table and introduce her to your friends. but yea great luck to you. have fun

I think the problem with most communities if you are still in high school is that the material is geared for more mature women, high school pick up in many cases is completely different from many of the techniques juniours and seniours read about. Because of this, different techniques must be used for the same outcome, and because younger girls (in high school etc) havent fully developed their bitch shields and shit tests to such a great extent, purely due to the fact that they have not been hit on as much, then many routines and methords currently in use may not comply. When at school, if you are a closest nerd who trys to reform themselves to become a PUA, many people see the person which you used to be and not what you have become meaning you will not get as much success. Also, when at school going to social environments with new and different people is harder purely due to the fact that you have to be a certain age i.e 18 or 21 for clubbing etc.

For this reason i present all teenagers who are in high school or other bodies of learning who use this site to have another think about the material they are reading and if it will really comply with their social need with the ladies. Therefore, i also propose the high school users of this site to come up with their own material and there own techniques for sarging which are better suited for girls of their age group rather than the material currently being read wihch is meant for a different age bracket, let this post be a starter for something new and different in pickup!

Witz out...

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***edit*** i completely forgot my main point besides the confidence, KINO building is wat'll keep her attracted after ur confidence, kino that girl to the end of the earth man, that and my confidence is teh only way i EVER get highschool girls

witz i agree with ya on some levels cause the material here isnt necessarily the most appropriate in a highschool setting, but when at college parties i use it successfully all the time, so when i was talking to my wingman we decided we wont use any of the actual lines here just use the confidence that we've learned to approach with confidence. i by no means am trying to sarge outa my mind in highschool. im just trying ideas cause i wanna help my fellow man out here . hopefully when im back from break ill try a few techniques that me and my wing have beenn working on and ill report back.

but warrier with wat witz said about finding environments of new people im a huge advocate of the mall. its where theres no shame in rejection imo, go out meet a few people and just have fun. and with the lack of popularity, i gotta disagree with witz...

i am not popular by any means. im in fuckin choir for gods sake. but im still able ot get a fair amount of dates, my game is still shit and im embarressed to even call it anything close to game, but dates still occur for me, just be confident and ull be fine.

then warrier with ur whole thing bout kiss on the cheek, for a freshman girl this might be a little much a good hug goes a long way in highschool id say. so dan just be confident and talk to her, an opener shouldnt be needed since she wont be a bitch most likely just play it cool and show attraction right away otherwise you might get stuck as the big junior brother to her ya know? good luck man keep us posted!

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-moony

Many of the things which people who are in HS read wont neccesarily work for them and i have been thinking that material should be developed based around techniques already out there SPAM which is suited more for HS.

The kinda of stuff im thinking off is less set routines and more ways of how people handle social situations in HS to their advantage for PU, thats why im planning on devoting less time to set routines and DHVs etc, and more to change my outlook and my interaction to my advantage
What do you guys think?

Witz out...

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Couldn't agree with you more Witz. I'm not sure how to explain it, but one of the best things thats worked for me is not get good rapport with only the girls, but also the popular guys. One of my best buds is a football player on the team and once we started working out, I have been getting more attention from girls because hes already a popular guy and they dont know who i am, thus they introduce themselves to me. saves me work from opening lol.

Routines per such I've used -Beauty is common -Negs (how do your parents deal with you, if she has siblings younger than her shes independent and bratty, if she has siblings older than her shes the baby of the family and "immature" (this one i just thought of and its worked for me, but Im not going to say its the best one in the world, test it if you want) -Assholeness followed by Cocky Funny. This one is by far the best thing ever IMO. Just joking around in general and being a dick to EVERYONE is fun and funny.

In high school, for opening hot girls they probably have relations to all the other hot girls and just open her asking if shes friends with such and such and just go on from there. You see in a club people wont know each other so you can afford to fuck up, but if you do in HS bye bye reputation as itll spread around. To avoid this, get good rapport with everyone and those that take it wrong, just weed them out - they arent your friends so screw them.

More than a club (and I may be wrong here), the louder you are and the more sarcastic you are = greater social proof. Which is why im saying be an asshole and cocky and funny. In a club you select "targets" , for high school I think the interaction is much more laid back as in you don't have to isolate her but just have a good time with all her friends and then when you see her again talk her up and ask her out.

BTW Ive seen other HS like sections on this site but none have been as popular as this. I think this will be really helpful for those of us in HS and even college. Obviously college will have more parties and stuff, but I think this really should be developed into day/school game. Anyone agree/disagree?

I certainly agree with you there, i still think many people who are in HS who use this sight maybe getting the wrong idea for what to use in HS, and i think a more permanent thread of ideas is needed!!!!

Witz out...

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ya i def think we're the ones spelling this stuff out, cause really sitting their with good openers and trying to simply just be an all-around pimp overnight doesnt work, building a good social circle is the key to success in highschool pu. like wats been said, simply work on building ur social circle with popular kids if your not already and itll start coming to ya.

again on monday when im back in school ill try a few things and report back to the thread.

gotta go to a voice lesson and do some passover shit tonight so ill report if anything interesting happens there. hopefully there'll be some hb's but ya never know

if anyone has anything to ask me tho just pm and ill answer back tonight later (CA time)

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