I am probably sure that this has happened to many before... or not. Either way, I usually try to find ways to make any scenario better by de-briefing myself in the morning. What could I have done better, other things I could have said. And I use them the next time it happens but with this one... i'm just dumbstruck. Totally blank!!!

So I was at the club and two girls walked by. I was in a high energy state and just opened them. They responded well... however, the targets friend pushed the target into me with a 'this guy is cute' signal. I know cos she told me I was cute later. Anyways, my question is if the girls friend pushes her friend into you, or just introduces you guys... you should try to start a conversation with both of them involved. However, when I tried to include the girl that pushed her friend, the other one started to wander off. I had already negged her and wanted to include both of them if I did a 'phase shift' to a nearby couch. Unfortunately in doing so, the girl that was pushed started to leave, and so did the girl that did the pushing. What could I have done differently or should have done at this time?? Isolation? I have heard that if you isolate two girls who came to the club together... it rarely works unless you have a wingman.

I can't seem to play this scenario out in my mind or some reason!!! Has that ever happened to anyone else? I guess that's what this forum is about...!!!

when that happens, I don't see the point in trying so hard to include both of them. If the girl was giving her friend that sign of "you should go get this guy"...and you recognized it, then you should have just gone with it.

From what it sounds like- the target's friend was not interested in conversing with you and was only interested in getting the target with you. If this is correct, then perfect! No longer a need to isolate. It's essentially a one on one set. In fact, you may have made it seem like you were interested in the target's friend, and since she wanted her friend to have you, she would have been put off by attempts from you to bring her back.

If your TARGET'S friend is so willing to leave you alone with the target, there is no point whatsoever in fighting that. In fact, if you wanted to open a two set, your point would be to ultimately isolate your target, but in this case, all that was done for you. So you would have been able to skip a whole bunch of steps.

Next time, just go with it. Just run game on the girl that's your target and don't worry about her friend who wants to leave you guys alone.

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yup.. that's true! if the girl pushes her friend to you.. just take her.. if you're really interested in her.. then you should've just ran your game...

this actually happened to me when i was at a club.. i was in the dance floor and my friends where nearby, by the dj speaker standing, looking around for girls.. ??? (i don't know... there were plenty of girls)... so i was in the dance floor doing my 2 steps.. when two girls came up to me.. one girls pushed her friend to dance with me.. she was a HB5 and her friend that pushed her was HB7.. so the girl started grinding on me.. i was like whatever.. did it for a couple of minutes.. then left her.. pointed at my friends so she could dance with them.. i signaled the other girl to dance.. but she didn't want to.. so i just shrugged it off.. i mean.. if i was really interested in the girl who was grinding on me.. i would've tried harder.. but.. yeah.. sooner or later.. the girl got scared off by my friends coz they were crowding her.. hahahah..