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| transfix | PostPosted: Wed Mar 25, 2009 9:18 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Aug 01, 2008 11:26 pm Posts: 18 | | Okay so to make the story short, I'm 11th grade, she seems to be like 9th or 10th grade. We don't have any classes together, we just see each other in the corridor, when changing rooms for different classes. She often makes eye contact with me and I make with her. Dont want to start the convo with "LOL I saw you staring at me" or something like that. I'm trying to open her with something really usual and interesting. She's having these wonderful reading-glasses, that I really like them and I was wondering if it's appropriate to open her with "I like your glasses, where did you get them?"
Waiting for your responses, cheers.
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| Carbon24 | PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 3:55 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Dec 03, 2008 9:10 pm Posts: 69 Location: Dallas (mesquite) texas | | any opener will do
or if she has friends with her that you no.go straight into the set and hug your friend and ask to be introduced.
or walk down the hall will a different girl everythime you know you will see her and wink...
but these are just ideas
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| KooLsidez | PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 11:25 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Fri Aug 29, 2008 8:06 am Posts: 39 | | you have to gauge what type of girl she is. Girls in high school can be incredibly mean but can also be incredibly self conscious.
If she is a confident girl that gets hit on, that opener will might not work so well. If you say she's been looking at you, tho, i suppose anything could work.
The only problem with gaming in school is that you can only be in the hallway for so long before everyone has to get to class. So, you're probably gonna have to game her over the course of a few days or even weeks, depending on how much you see her. You don't want to be going up to her every time you see her, but if you make enough of an impression on her the first few times, she will start coming to say hi to you.
Now- for the opener- like I said, you should gauge what type of girl she is. If she seems like a nice girl- you can totally just smile and say hi when she looks at you and it could probably work.
If she's more on the opposite end of the spectrum- maybe when she looks at you "What?" while smiling or "Well...hi to you too".
And when she responds with a "what?" or other confused remark (note: if she stops in the hallway just to say something like that or act confused, you already just DLV'd her because you called her out on her looking at you),
just say something cocky and funny like "you know you can talk to me instead of us just looking at each other."
Just remember- don't be too mean or too cocky/weirdly creepy because in high school, it is only socially acceptable to ignore a person that comes off too forward. Just try to be fun and not too imposing because not only is it day game- but it's high school- where everyone is a little self-conscious and cautious of their moves. _________________ http://learninthegame.blogspot.com
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| Winter's Chill | PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 8:49 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Jan 11, 2008 4:41 am Posts: 19 | | I like KooLsidez's "you know you can talk to me instead of us just looking at each other."
The only problem I see with it really is that it would be difficult to do as you are walking down the halls. Also, just my own personal opinion, winking would be golden. Just do it very casual, and keep on walking. After doing that it really would not suprise me if you get some feedback from the girl the next time you pass her.
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