Hey folks.really want 2 open this girl who works in a grocery store.evident ioi with some eye contact however problem lies on the fact she is never on the cash register...some simple ideas please and the best game 2 run...dhv etc..?

I'm not sure about the grocery store, however, I have had some success with this line in quiet clothes shops: "So what time does this place liven up?"

Well, if she's stocking shelves or something and you see her working in the aisle. Just go up to her with a question about where to find something.

It's even better if you ask her how to find something obscure- like adult diapers- and she actually knows, and then you can bust on her about it.

Or, I like this one- "Where can I find green jello and a cake mold?" She tells you where it is, probably with weird look on her face
"I know it sounds weird, but we're gonna play a prank on my friend and put his Iphone in Jello, he's on that thing all day, even when we're talking to him....we're gonna get him good" (The Office =D)

"If you couldn't find your phone and then I presented it to you inside a jello cake, what would you say?"
or
"You think he's gonna be pissed?"
or whatever and then continue the convo from there. You can definitely give a story laden with DHV spikes for you that explains why you're doing this to your friend. Show that you and your friends are people that love to have fun.

totally unrelated, but this is something you can use in a situation like this or any day game situation-
"you seem like a nice-girl type, maybe you can help me out with something..." (slight DLV) ask her an opinion about what to get your mom as a gift or something

Later on- you can say something like "My friend used to work in two different supermarkets and he said that all the girls he worked with were so boring, is there truth to that?" And then she'll laugh and try to defend herself or whatever.

Body language and general good, fun energy is key here. Her IOI's will most likely be subtle if and when you get them, and avoid any touching/kino as it will probably make her feel weird as it is less socially acceptable to do something like that during day game.


EDIT: Just noticed that you said grocery store and I was thinking supermarket. I suppose this could still work, but I was thinking large supermarket, more chance of privacy, more chance that you actually can't find something, but they have it somewhere, etc.

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