OK fella's heres my problem. It seems every time I see a cute chick at a store she's got a freaking cell phone strapped to the side of here head. How do you guys handle this without lingering around waiting for her to get off?


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I'm having this problem at clubs. I've got my fashion down so girls are noticing me and giving me eye contact and other IOI's. But I just really don't find them attractive to make me even want to approach and talk. I know most are going to say "just practice man". But that's where the problem is, if I'm not really into them it seems to effect my frame and I wind up telling myself, "I don't really want to talk to her/them anyway, I don't care what they have to say". How do you overcome this and keep the right frame?

And one last thing:

And this one is REALLY affecting my frame. Last night was a prime example, I came in the club. Giving the room some love, showing I know people. Convo with random people for a second etc. Then I met up with my friends I was meeting in the club and we talked for a while, uninteresting girls were giving IOI's, undoubtedly realizing how I worked the room when I arrived. But here's the other problem.. the MUSIC annoys the shit out of me. When I go to a club I like to here HIP HOP not techno or live bands or dance music, just hip hop. It REALLY puts good energy in me and invokes a feeling of happiness I can't really explain and the others create a progressively increasing annoyance. How can I handle these internal problems that are affecting my frame?

summary:

Chicks I find attractive usually have a phone surgically attached to there ear, and it's day game scenarios.

I'm very picky with women, haven't dated a lot but the ones I have dated were very high quality. Picky about the music.

THANKS for ANY help you got.

You're a prize trophy with intelligence and charisma from another planet compared to everyone else. Sure, these girls might not interest you, but think about it this way, why not spread a little bit of your magic into their earthling lives? A short "hey, how's it goin'?" maybe. Frame it that way.

Do I sense a bit of sarcasm? Maybe you're right.... I'm being an arrogant ass in that respect I guess. Thanks

When girls pull the phone shit on me, I just smile and say "ok talk to you later" and walk clean away. If you are really into her, then find somebody in sight of her and hit up a big convo with them. Ignore the girl completely while doing this, dont even look in her direction.

Second part you got good advice on. Come back down to earth and share the love, baby.

Third part, really? The music bothers you THAT badly? Your frame isnt nearly as strong as it should be if you are that easily put off. Relax a little buddy, learn to have some fun.

Thanks again for the advice. I guess Im having more problems than I realized with my frame. Maybe the music shouldn't bother me so badly. I'll try to work on that.

With the phone advice, I totally get what you are saying about walking away, which I have done and I have just freezed out the girl if we are at like coffee or whatever. But my real question is how do you approach her if she is on the phone when you see her?

Thanks again and I'll work on me some more.