Dear people,

We often talk about the techniques we have to use when we want to approach women.
But in my experience I notice that this is mostly about seducing a woman “for the night”.
But I work as a journalist, and one day I made an article about a charity and there was a beautiful girl a 10, but se is so social engaged and nice, that the negs and all dhv just don’t work.
But I am genuine in love with her; I just can’t stop thinking about her.
So I am planning to call her (I already have her number for professional reasons, and I already had casual and fun conversations with her).
But none of the techniques work, because she is not being approached due to her work.
Help me out this one please
My regards

the less guys hitting on her she has, the more you can skip the DHVing and give her more IOIs. Keep negging her but make sure she knows you are kidding.

If you can find some things that you have in common outside or work then arrange talk about them. the use that topic as a branch into hanging out

"Wow, we should definately continue this conversation later, I'm going (somewhere) on (some day) you should totally come along too!

If she is busy I would just follow up with asking her when she is free.

Dont forget key rules:
- Be cooler than she is
- Dont act too interested or love with her (push pull=attraction)
-remember to keep the conversation topics INTERESTING
-be playful and fun
-dont let her push you around

i am sure the other more skilled and knowledgable PUAs have stronger advice than that though