I'm 19 and I haven't had a girlfriend or even been on a date. I've heard that you can't go looking for relationships and you just have to let it happen. Is that true? Or do I have to take the initiative? Is approaching a potential girlfriend the same as gaming?

never approach them as if their potential girlfriends. NEVAR!!!


Just follow typical game guidelines to get girls. Eventually one will hit you as the one.

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He's absolutely right mate, do NOT approach a girl thinking that you'll get a relationship out of it (speaking from experience heh). The idea is, you learn the tools that all of us on this forum are practicing and talking about (or at least a few), and then just build up some confidence in yourself to go out and begin asking girls out.

The idea is basically the shotgun effect. You experience a multitude of interesting and different women, and not just sexually (although recommended, women like to have fun too). When you do meet that oh so special someone that you have huge chemistry with, you'll know exactly how to approach her, exactly what to do with her, and exactly how to maintain that relationship.

Think of it like a game (i'm an uber geek so that's what I do), the more people that you meet, the more experience that you good.

Remember there are NO failures, only FEEDBACK.

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Regards,

Tyr

Yea, Tyrannon is a level 6 human pick-up artist.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future