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This is a good opener... "Im sure that you're probably in a relationship right now... But will you tell me something? I want to know what it is that attracts a girl like you to a guy"
This could work quite nicely. from there you can either.
-cut her off and say something like.."I once dated a girl who liked (X characteristic) about me"; and build a 'yes' ladder.
-you can have a large DHV story ready and use what ever her answer is in a positive story.
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