I am an AFC. I had known this girl in my college for sometime and we used to share hi's and hello's quite often. Then, I read "The Game' and other stuff on this forum and used the "wig opener" on her on facebook and got a reply that was like "how mean! it's not my wig!" and i replied.."don't worry it does look okay.." then it all faded.

Now, the hi's and hello's have faded too. Is there any way I can approach her back?

jesus bro u need help

I'll be blunt,

get your head out of your ass,
WAKE UP

alright,

before you start trying this pua stuff you have to do a lot of work. You gotta get a good lifestyle going. You gotta make friends, do shit that you've never done that you wanna do. Martial arts, sports, some weird shit whatever. Adopt a superhero lifestyle. Grab life by the balls!

Then at some point, you'll realize something:
Look around, your lifestyle probably puts most of these girls' to shame. Its now about them impressing YOU. When you go to approach a girl, have nothing in mind but the fact that your meeting someone new who might impress you. Be critical of girls rather than the other way around.

when you realize that its not about you picking up girls, its about them picking up you, you'll know you're ready.

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some will rob you with a six-gun, some with a fountain pen...

...Hmmm...I don't neccessarly agree with the post above, but he does make a few good points.

You obviously have a little issue...no biggie...but you don't have to change your entire life just to START getting women! Everything you read or hear or see, you should try to put it to use in the most applicable situation!

Body language for instance would be great to practice or look into for those times when you're walking by each other...if she sees that you're confident she'll be 100x more likely to be nice and accepting to an opener.

Try some quick little ESP tricks or just everyday little useless things....it helps when you and your woman are by yourself or for entertaining little groups.

Once you get into reading all this material and just seeing all this at work, you will actually start to realize the things you will want to change and the things you need to change, but you have to be willing to step out of your comfort zone...it's not called making a change just so you can stay the same...MAKE A CHANGE!!! And get on it quick...It sounds like your target is loosing interest!!

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-Crain Diesel

BOATS AND HOES!!!

I've had the same problem , I wanted to talk to one of the most beautiful girl in my college, just to prove myself , that now , with the game and all my improvements I was able to seduce her...sort of revenge you know...

I've just talked to her , and then , she realized that,all by herself , she wanted to see me again, blablablaa. (I'll free you from the rest of the story)

The big differences between your case , and mine , is that , I've not talked to her before I've made changes on myself, reading the game is not an " improvement ", it's a book you know . I've read lord of the rings , and I've not turned into Aragorn!! That's a book!! It becomes more than a book , the day you decide to use it in order to change your life.

So my advice would be, change, ( yes you can!! lol) and , then , talk to her , show her the new guy, and do whatever you want.

The other thing that I noticed , is : you just opened her, yes you did it on facebook, but you just opened her , you did nothing after the opener , 'cause you had nothing to say, you didn't know what to say , so , work on it too!!

By the way , it's a neg , and without the body language ,voice tonality and other stuff, she may be misunderstanding it!! and your " ohhh but it looks good don't worry" may for the same reason sounds like a "oooohhh I'm sorry, I didn't wanted to say that, you're the best , excuse me ", that's to say , afc stuff. This girl knows you are afc , so, don't use neg on the internet , because , in her mind , she will imagine you ( afc ) saying that to her , and, that would not sound ( in her head) as you wanted it to sound.

All of you guys are right! Merely reading game wouldn't make me Neil Strauss!

This girl I told you about in the beginning of the thread gave me such strong IOI's initially (because I'm a good orator and I shared the stage with her on an event in the college) She would give me her hand for me to pick her up while she was sitting. But having a severe lack in confidence, I couldn't at all take it to woo this girl or even continue that level. What an asshole I've been. When I see this HB walking around the college premises, I feel a pang because I missed out on her.

And not just this girl, there have been loads of HB's in the college who gave me good IOI's in the beginning but the way I am, my body language and all, I just fuck it up.

I have this problem of appearing out to be a super shy and a decent boy. Not at all an alpha.

So, do you guys mean that if I really bring a change in myself at the inner level and outer level, I could game the same girl again?

Anyways, thanks all for your replies!

I think you can, but whatever, try!! there's nothing to lose.