Hello, I'm new to the whole PU thing (Friend recommended "The Game" and I loved it). I won't go into details about anything right now as there is nothing really to tell.

There is this girl who is texting me a lot and being super flirty and all that. I've done some Push-Pull and negs here and there to keep her stimulated in the conversation and it has all been working great.

But she hasn't texted me in a couple of days, so my question is: Is it coming off needy if I text her? Or should I wait for her to text me?

I'm entirely sure if that would come off needy or confidant.

There's nothing wrong with texting her first, just so long as you don't do it all the time. You won't really need to if you're doing it right in the first place--she should want to text YOU! But anyways, this seems like a good time to try opening up a conversation by sending her a blank text. She'll respond:

Her: Why did you send me a blank text?

You: What are you talking about? You don't have to make excuses just to talk to me.


Of course this is only one of many examples.. there's plenty of good text openers plastered around this website. Good luck.

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I agree. You shouldn't be initiating it all the time, but some of the time it's fine. Being persistant without seeming needy is attractive.

But just like anything, if you don't take it to the next level, girls get bored.

Meaning, if you continue to text and it stays at that.. don't expect results.

Just say: I think this has gone far enough... we're getting to 'textual'... you should meet me *insert location*

Something funny or off-beat like that.

--QB

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