I know im not at all the first person to give this suggestion, but I wanted to repeat it for anybody that may have forgotten about this little idea about how to improve ur game:

RECORD YOUR SETS!

OMG, u would b sooooo surprised to no what u will find out by recording ur sets. Invest in a little digital voice recorder if u dont already have one. U will notice things that ur doing that never even crossed ur mind.

I went out during the day and recorded my sets. Pretty much all of my sets went kinda bad, so I was thinking, 'man, i dont even want to listen to these recordings, Ill just be cringing the whole time. And besides, i know what i did wrong' However, when i finaly got around to listening to the recordings, i noticed things that i never would have noticed on my own without hearing the third person perspective. I was talking in a monotone voice with pretty much no energy, i was asking too many questions and not really contributing anything to the convo, etc.
And the craziest thing is that even with all that, when i listened back to the recordings, they actually seemed like they didnt go that bad. The girls were giggling a little and laughing and one of the girls picked up the convo when it went dead for a second. I didnt even notice these IOIs when i was actually in set bcuz i guess i was so nervous, everything was being filtered through my mind in a way that made things seem more negative than they actually were.

I know alot of u are probably thinking that u would notice if a girl was giving u IOIs, but the truth is when u r nervous in set, the back of ur brain finds reasons to not believe these IOIs and gives u some other reason for why she might b smiling at u or whtever.
So, RECORD YOUR SETS, ITS AN EYE-OPENING EXPERIENCE!

nice suggestion, ill try that tomorrow