Hi guys im new to the forum, been reading for a couple of weeks now and have been fascinated. Basically long story short there is a HB10 who i barely know, dont think ive seen her about since high school, and havent spoke to yet. So here my problem is, i have a small infatuation for her, and want to send her something that will make her remember me and think about me for a while, that way if i was to continue online it would break the ice, or if i saw her out about i could go introduce myself etc.

I was thinking along the lines of:
Hey there, your a fairly attractive girl/lady and there is someone i like but havent really spoken to before, how do you think the best way to get there attention/approach them is?

see what she says then go from there, hopefully once we're texting i could bring it up see if the feeling is mutual.
What do you guys think?

Sorry man, but she will instantly pic up on that.
1st mistake: put here on a pedestal by telling her she is attractive.
2nd mistake: you lost 1 of the 6 traits of an alpha male. CONFIDENCE! cause if you dont know what to say then your not confident.
3rd: You wont get her phone number for txting if you can't get through A2.

Open: So you need to start with a good opener. aka "Sincere Opener". Then when you get talking to her.

Disqualify: , but don't over neg, be like "man at first i thought it was my sister i had been talking to this entire time "dont say jk either stick with it.

DHV: Go into a story about your little sister that conveys ur family orientated.
I think there was one on here that talks about taking ur lil sis to shop for a pet for her birthday. (girls love that stuff)

Screen: then screen her, if she's in college say "what are you majoring in?" you: "wow your fucking kidding my ex was a psychology major i cant even talk to you now. "

then she will be playful to you with the reply and be like you know what you have 2 of the 3 qualities i look for in people i like.

her: o what are they
you: personality, good outlook on life, and a good energy.

then you should be able to get her number.

VERY IMPORTANT: you want to get things out in the real world as soon as possible or you will never meet if you wait too long it will be creepy when you finally ask so get the number and start txtn her and stuff.

By the way if she likes you you will know it DONT ask just kiss close!

*you need to make sure you have a good myspace profile pic and some good stuff on there cause she will look if she is interested.

Cheers guys, got it sorted from now on
To be honest i think reading is a fairly shit way to play the game, instead you need to get out there then have some feedback, much better.
Thanks again.

thnx for the help. i know some girls. my friends friends
they are variating between hb8 hb10
and i also didnt know how to approach them.
i did the pedestialing. but your ways seems nice.
i'll try out with some negging

I didn't feel the need to open a new thread as my situation is do with facebook too:

Basically, there's a girl on there, who was my high school crush (I'd never dated, kissed a girl, I was 13 at the time), I was a complete AFC back in the day, never told her how I felt, she had a bf, he was the AMOG, wasn't going to risk a beating. Other guys did and they got what was coming!

Now, I'd like to send this girl a message, just to let her know that I had a crush (thinking it would put a smile on her face), but I'm thinking about my wording. I don't think I want anything to come out of this adn it won't as I'm living half way around the world from her and she's not a HB11 anymore judging from the pic on facebook

She was the hottest girl in our year at the time but left to go to another city in the third year, she was a HB11 in my eyes back then, oh how I dreamed of her, looking at her in our French class, I was so nervous when I had to speak aloud in class and she'd be listening.

I only really ever spoke to a couple of times and each time my legs were turning to jelly, my mind was going in a thousand directions, my mouth was going dry, I was a shambles, felt like I was going to fall apart.

Now, I'm not quite the mPUA yet, and I know what I should say and shouldn't say, but I'd like get your opinion. I'm going along the lines of:

Hey (nickname, bit of a neg), it's been 15 years since you sang that song and then did a houdini. At least the lads got to do some work in class once you were gone (trying not to give too much DHV here, but throwing a compliment). I should have have rid myself of my AFC status back then and told you that I had a huge crush on you, but I never approached (DLV I know, but I want to be honest). Lesson learnt. In your reply (taking control, implying that she will, like it's expected or I know she will), don't use that geordie lingo on me as I won't understand a word of what you're saying. If you do, then I'll just type a chinese message back. Try and crack that!

ethan

Please give feedback, I'm avoiding needy, not showning intent, but do I need a DHV story, not in the opener right? or do I need to throw in an opinion opener? (I think maybe not, I know she'll remember her performance with the song I mention, so that'll give her something to write back about). I'm not expecting her to write back saying she had feelings, far from it, but I think it's time to cross back over bridges where I took the easy road and didn't approach.

I would never tell a girl that I had a crush on her unless she was my girlfriend. I don't really see the point of sending a facebook message to a girl telling her that you had a crush on her way back in school. I don't think there is any way that you could tell her this without it being AFC.

My advice would be to simply to use the first line you wrote and then ask her how she is. Get a conversation going, who knows maybe one day you will meet her again.

Good luck!

Cheers antic, appreciate the feedback. I knew it was making me come across as an AFC, but was kind of curious to see if there would be a response.

I'll stick to the first line and take it from there, even that could sound creepy, she'll think I'm some sort of elephant in that I never forget things. I'll just go with some C&F about my memory if so, hey it still works. I seem to be really good at rememebring things from far back, although when I just meet a girl, I sometimes need to write down things about them in the short term. Guess I'm kind of like Guy Pearce's character in Memento, but not that extreme haha. I don't write things over my body, well not yet anyhow