it can be SO key if you do it right.
simple rules to start:
1. it's not "staring." it's looking. staring means you just go blank and freeze up. look in her left eye with both of your eyes, and pay attention. keep listening to her while you look. looking in someone's eyes makes them feel connected to you, and gets you from thinking to much.
2. breathe. you don't have to start faking it and trying to breathe with her. too much work. just make sure you rememeber to keep breathing deep and slow.
3. smile. not a fake smile (the kind where you curl your lips up but the muscles around your eyes don't move). i mean a small smile.
4. don't freeze up your body, esp. your head, esp. when she's talking and you are listening. men love to do this... when a girl is talking, they lock up and look like they are not listening. know why? cos we're not listening. nod your head just a little while she is talking.
here's what it looks like:
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