After sarging on the westside with Pitcher last night, I've happened upon a nice epiphany.

I opened quite a few sets that went absolutely nowhere, AND IT WAS A GOOD THING. Not just for the learning experience, but also because after spending time with these girls in conversation, I was already convinced I'd never want any more than the few minutes I just shared with them.

Having air-tight game would mean seducing every target you approached and it would also mean that you're wasting a lot of time and energy on women you just don't really admire.

See, game is great to have and it is an awesome tool in building an interaction and framing an ongoing conversation with someone, however, in the best case scenarios it's when game is entirely overshadowed by chemistry that it all feels so worth it.

I think chemistry is another way of saying "game on auto-pilot".

I ended up talking and making out with to a tall, sexy, blonde, whose company I thouroughly enjoyed. I used a good transition which came to me on the spot, "we can't ask any mundane questions" I told her. So for the next twenty minutes we went back and forth finding out so much more about each other than we would have if I was just trying to number close. "can you do any trampoline tricks?" I asked. "Do you have any phobias?" she asked. "what's the craziest place you've had sex?" I asked much later in the interaction, it was a great natural sexual escalation question and she seemed to shift to an arousal state after I told her mine was in a museum stairway)(she thought it was romantic) but generally we didn't repeat ourselves and I still have no idea what she does for a living or where she went to school and I'm happier for it.

The point is, that this is why I sarge, because meeting hot babes with good spirits is good for the soul. And to get to them, you've gotta go for them, which means going through some sets that have very quick and sometimes anti-lock abrupt endings to them.

Anyway, it's early Saturday night. Happy sarging.

Peace