This has now happened to me twice within my last handful of openers, and i really dislike it. I am currently reading TMM and understand the psykologic in it, but i want to make sure it doesn't happen again or i am better prepared, because both times i came up with a stupid answer and seemed like a very bad AFC afterwards.

I open a HB, obviously not the best opener or lack of confidence, whatever, that's not the question, but what has happened twice is that the girl then says "Is this your way of hitting on girls?"

Yes, i know that you can use negs here, but that is easier before the HB says this and the problem is that i come up saying something AFC like "Hey, i don't hit on you" or "Whatever never mind". I just want something to say to her bitch shield that both keeps my confidence up, make her believe that i ain't really hitting on her (for making my gaming easier) and that is still polite enough to continue with another opener.

Hope you understood what it is i am looking for, and thx in advance for your answers.

depending on your opener, you could say "oh, i thought i was being funny and cute. i guess im just cute" forget where i read this but i usually get a good laugh from her then we continue on

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ive heard guys say "ya...im trying to learn to be irresistible to women" then dont give her any time to answer and go to another topic or question or somethin

Both very good, and a fun one dw3llz I will put it to the test, or else i won't mind if they don't say it again... But i just want to be prepared for such a situation

Hmm, that's a tough bitch sheild.

Depending on how far you want to go, you could even say something like; "Do you feel like you are being hit on?" which can lead you to a series of NLP based questions...example "What do you feel when you are attracted to somone?"

Or just fire back with something like; "would you rather me start tripping over my words like most other blokes in here?".

Either way, you don't want to seem like she's shut you down. Fire something back and put her in her place. Let her know you are in control of this conversation and you don't need her for anything.

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i agree with all the guys
the funny and cute one works well, i've used it before

Stay away from hey i dont hit on you. Boring, typical and defensive. She will turn it into an argument.
PUA: Dont flatter yourself darling.

Turn it into C&F. Create some attraction. Make her flirt.

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Good one too. What about doing a neg on her? Something along the line...

"Do you REALLY think everyone is hitting on you?"

How will this be perceived in her head? Maybe it's more of an insult than a neg
C&F?

PUA-Wow just because your hot you think that every lad that talks to you is hitting on you? you really need to sort that ego of yours out *Dont give her time to reply and go straight into a routine*
or

If shes in a set with 2 or more be like
"Noo i came over here to hit on your friend but seeining though your clearly more intrested...." Then leave it at that and go into a routine

Im not saying these are fool proof you could run into ALOT of shit tests with them but ive used this a couple of times and they worked.

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Yeah, thx for that one aswell. I will try these out and see the reaction - of course not trying to make that situation again, but in case it happens again i hope i am ready with one of these replies