I never use canned openers because they never feel right and obviously feeling right is essential in being relaxed and accepting of your interaction. However, I sometimes like to mix things up and make sets harder on myself than they need to be for the challenge. Sometimes I'll wear filthy shoes, or I'll say something really off-putting, whatever the case may be, it's fun.

With that said, I've found my next challenge from a brief viewing of the film Ladies Man. Here goes my new opener...(Approach works best in a bar.)

"So can I buy you a...fish sandwich?"

(ladies man lisp optional)

I'm using it tonight and I encourage all of you to try this potential grenade and let me know how you pulled it off anyway.

Peace