Hi guys,

Just wondering what people say when they are opened by a HB.

This is a freebie and I always blow out. So it's time I got some material down so I don't waste these easy opportunities. I tend to be opened in one of the following 3 ways.

1. A compliment eg I love your shoes
2. A neg eg. I love your dancing it's like you don't give a shit
3. Indirect AFC style eg. do you have a light?

Any advice is as always, much appreciated.

Thanks,

Z

Personally I think the biggest thing when being opened is to really listen to what they are saying and take a few seconds to recognise their body language etc. They may genuinely need a light or whatever, obviously when they come over and compliment that is an IOI so with situations like that I have recently learned to just be relaxed, not try being cocky and neg or whatever because they've already showed an initial interest, so then I'd for instance just say thanks and compliment them back (not on beauty of course) or ask something situational etc.
The amount of times I have screwed up being opened though is rediculous. A scenario I had a while ago was I was at a pub with my mates, they went to get the beers while I stayed with the seats and our jackets etc. So anyway these 3 HBs come over and say "hey is anyone sitting here" like an idiot I said "yeah my buddies are, they'll be back in a minute" and with that it was blown, 10 seconds later I realised it, told my mates when they got back and they didn't thank me lol. So like I said at the start of my post, always take a few extra seconds to think about what the situation really is or you could do stupid stuff like I did there haha.

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This has happened to me a few times and I have mostly messed it up... i agree u need to look at her body language and her IOIs.
Because this rarely happens especially with HB9/10s i think u need to reward her for making the effort, give her some validation. I wouldnt neg otherwise she'll just think your rude.
U can essentially spend less time in the attraction stages, because u will probably know that she is attracted to u from what she said, how shes acts etc...
I once had a girl ask if she could buy me a drink, which completely shocked me. I went into attraction rountines and honesty looking back she wasnt probably bored and wondering why i wasnt hitting on her...
The girl im seeing at the moment, opened us by asking if her and her friends could sit our table cos there were no other seats (unsure whether there was or not). We introduced ourselves to each other, shooted shit for a while, connected for a bit, i caught her giving me EC then kino escalated and went from there...