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| Bothan321 | PostPosted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:47 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:42 am Posts: 11 | | I think I come off as nerdy or that I know alot of "information". Girls are always asking me questions and I'm sure it's not because they are attracted to me. What can I say other than the fact of what they want to know?
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| Abdul-aAfc | PostPosted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 1:21 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Sun Sep 07, 2008 3:12 pm Posts: 677 Website: http://freepua.tk Location: England | | Give us an example of a question they ask you? Then maybe we can help you.
Giving girls information doesn't reduce your attractiveness points.
You could neg her if they ask you a question.
But please give us an example
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| Bothan321 | PostPosted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 8:34 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Nov 16, 2008 7:42 am Posts: 11 | | like: if im at a hardware store in the same asile as them they might ask me a question about something they need
or at school they ask me questions about a class we are both in or help with homework
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| Abdul-aAfc | PostPosted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 9:10 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Sun Sep 07, 2008 3:12 pm Posts: 677 Website: http://freepua.tk Location: England | | You probably read from some book that it is a bad thing. I would see that as an IOI.
You are very lucky because you have girls approaching you. Half of your work has already been done for you. The next time taht happens i will advise you to after answering the question immediately run game on her.
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| Balsam | PostPosted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 11:19 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 05, 2008 11:56 pm Posts: 20 | | Yeah, say something like "well that information doesn't come for free" or something. and you're off.
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| glass | PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 8:15 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jun 16, 2008 7:27 pm Posts: 4 | | I am an engineer student so I know how you feel. I guess the best way is to answer with a lot of enthusiasm for the subject. Enthusiasm is contagious [mystery] so if you can answer enthusiastically and turn it into an interesting story, you'll get major IOI's and questions. But with the wrong delivery it can go sideways on you and you'll get major IOD's. You have to practice to get it right, try talking about something boring while you're by yourself and adjust the way you say it so it sounds interesting
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| NonStopReaper | PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 8:43 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon Dec 04, 2006 2:49 am Posts: 625 Location: Tokyo, Japan (grew up in Socal) | | Well you can either tell them or what i would do is help them out in a way they know you are joking. For example if i'm at a hardware store and she ask me about some hardware like screws i'd go
NonStop: oh yeah that thing. Follow me its in another isle.
Bring her around to like the plumming and show her a plunger and be like
NonStop: here it is! *smile big*
HB: thats not it!!
NonStop: I swore this what you where looking for *scratch head in confusion**smile*
Here look for IoI she might laugh or smile then be like.
NonStop: i was testing you, Here let me get what you are looking for, for real this time.
From here you can run Routines or whatever you want. _________________ "Live life to the fullest, never look back, remember No regrets" J.f
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| V1V | PostPosted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 12:14 am | |
Joined: Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:05 pm Posts: 835 | | They are IOIs. They are opening you. _________________ V1V 
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| RHVickrz | PostPosted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 12:54 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Oct 24, 2008 8:58 am Posts: 11 | | instead of just answering the question and ending the interaction, use it as an opportunity to spark up conversation. i wouldnt call it an IOI, maybe they just think you are the most likely to answer the question correctly, or the most convienient.
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| Royal56 | PostPosted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 3:29 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Nov 18, 2008 6:34 am Posts: 9 | | Just having them ask you questions should be an instant IOI, regardless of the question. Shes expressing interest in you. After that you should start into some DHV stories.
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| Swoop | PostPosted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:57 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Thu Jan 18, 2007 7:12 am Posts: 391 Location: Az | | "I would tell you...... but I have the feeling you're not good with big words."
"Oh I don't work here. Thats cute youre confused tho."
For class: "Ya. I know all the answers. I would teach this class if I wasn't training to be a ninja."
Play with them. Its one of two things, an IOI, or she thinks she can tool you for what she wants. Display a little value and she'll be more attracted regardless. Run it after that. _________________ Make Moves
Swoop
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| mozyFresh | PostPosted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 1:35 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Dec 11, 2007 10:26 pm Posts: 903 Location: bizarro world | | Just simplely answer their question and use what they asked to further the conversation...
for example in a hardware store
'so are you good with your hands then?' or 'so your thinking of doing some...'
Then say something further about the product or a experience with it, then ask something to change topic.
You cant really plan a conversation but you can use things to continue it when you feel you need to.
If you're confident and alert these things will just come to you, that way it flows better. _________________ To effectively communicate, we must realise that we are all different in the way we percieve the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.
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| The Rev | PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 6:48 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Nov 24, 2008 12:00 am Posts: 48 | | just make sure you dont give TMI...too much information and just rambling on will just hurt the attraction...i have a friend that does that all the time...hes an awesome guy but just talks too much
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