ME: Hey... I like those shoes, they make you look sexy...
ME: Only problem is... They should have been transparent...
ME: You know, the kind with lights in it.... Yes... Thats what i miss... Lights that light up at every step you take!
ME: If you would have lights in it... DAMN you would be so awesome!
HB: hahaha
ME: so tell me.... who are you?
HB: i'm monica
ME: so who's monica?
HB: *qualifying*

This is direct game stuff... you say she's sexy, make a joke out of it and then qualify her straight away.... so no opinion opener / hiding your interest bullshit... you have to be confident, have value, look good, know that you can do it and just go in for the kill... balls to the wall

Guys... can this work like this ? Opinions please? or is it too much of a sexual remark to say she's sexy and her shoes are hot etc...? because it might get some girls weirded out??

(This is just something crazy i came up with naturally. I tried it 3x today at a party... I plowed through and got their number anyway, but not instant success... they got a bit weirded out in the beginning and i had to re-prove myself)

I'd drop the sexy part.

I am no expert however, conveying interest to early isn't good no matter what kind of shoes they are wearing.

Let them qualify themselves a bit and once you've heard enough and gotten the prerequisite ioi's then gear shift.

If you drop it however its a great opener with a built in neg. However since its still direct you need to maintain the cocky funny balls to the wall attitude you described.

Otherwise they'll think your subtly calling them a whore.

I like it. Its direct and casual. If you can deliver it confidently and with charisma then I'd say your golden. And its also a fact that chicks love shoes and ipso facto love conversations pretaining to thier shoes.

I definetly agree with TheSophisticate though that you should drop the sexy part. Keep it simple and don't compliment her too much. You want her to swoon over you, not the other way around.

Other then that its money.

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there's 1 problem with it: some girls take it as an insult. they sometimes think you are calling them a whore

so thats why i added the sexy part, so they know I actually like it. but you guys are right as well: saying she's sexy is not the way to comfort her out of the insult.

(actually its not an insult: i like transparent heels with lights in it, especially if she's naked in my bathroom, leaning over to the sink... whahaha)

so how to make sure its not an insult without blessing her she's sexy?

Ye of little faith. I always open by telling them how sexy they all are... sometimes they say thanks, sometimes they just all glance at each other and smile, and of course sometimes they'll just look at me like I'm a crazy person. And they're right. It's all frame control and attitude, and of course paying attention to their reactions helps - if they aren't impressed then you can throw in a neg and start joking around with them. Good knowledge of womens' fashion, latest celebrity gossip and all that stuff really helps out here. It's very easy to get them to buy into your frame if you're on the level with them.

By the way, she isn't gonna think you think she's a whore just because you compliment her on her choice of shoes. There's nothing wrong with her expressing her femininity, as a matter of fact they appreciate the fact that you're paying attention to those little details.

Touche.

I think its a style difference though. I fly in under the radar and game them appropiately. Once shes interested I look at her as a new person and start to proceed with light complimenting and escalating kino. Negging, dod's and body language alteration if she starts misbehaving.

As for the shoes it may be a culture thing. Over here if a girl goes out in 6 inch heels usually its to send a message. They don't call them "fuck me" shoes for nothing lol. I can think of a few personal experiences that support this.

Why do you think this topic is about going direct based on her shoes

yes but we are not complimenting her shoes anymore when we are talking about the shoes being transparent with lights in it. then it goes beyond feminity/style... its just plain tacky (even though i like that personally )
so thats why some girls consider it insulting..

Exactly.

Thats why you should maintain the cocky funny attitude when using it.

More playful then serious.

edit- I really like this opener but id be careful using it because it might make an insecure girl more insecure and thus uncomfortable.

This sounds like "high maintence 9 and 10" material. those types will tottaly be thrown off their game by it.

Just my thoughts

True, I did it on a 7 and she stepped away. It's not that she doesnt like me, she just felt ackward. Maybe I hit a nerve, something she couldnt handle.
9's and 10's >> they like it > you break in with something funny like this to mess with their game and then you get serious > who are you?

Yep.

The 9's and 10's probably like it cause they are not used to hearing it and it makes them slightly insecure and thus more open to communication loosing that whole im hot shit and your not vibe.

a 7 mgiht get teased about her style choices or at least not complimented very often so this is something shes used to and thus not effective.

I like to do the opposite of everyone and thus stand out in the girls mind, basic mystery method 101.

As for who i am: just an aspiring mpua such as yourself

it's half direct but it's funny

use the physical compliment... that's alright

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haha, the "who are you" was part of the routine