| situation 1:
i would have talked to her ignoring the target, buddied up with her, got her comfortable with me, ejected from the convo in spite of "being rude to her", isolated, and opened my routine on her. simple, the ideal textbook way, sometimes easier said than done. but theoretically, works amazingly. the biggest factor to overcome with girls are the friend/best friend factor. you will get no where without this approval. all you ever need is the friend, or barrier as i call it, to say 1 time, "hes a cool/nice guy."
it works either way for guys or girls, and just pick which one you want to run on and use the above technique.
situation 2:
if it were me, i would have simply said, "you hiding from someone, or just desperate for a good conversation (smile)". if she said hiding i would say "oh from who, (she points), ok play along i got you covered."
at which point i would give her a huge hug, pick her up, spin her, and say loudly so he hears it. "ive missed you so much baby, where have you been!." then once he gets the idea, set her down and start running your routine. she will love you for it and will begin to have built comfort in the fact that you "protected" her from a creeper.
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