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sometimes I feel like approaching a women but say to myself that my hair isn't right or my dress sense is inappropriate or maybe I look flabby this week....is that my lack of self esteem talking or what???
it is all finding excuses NOT to approach. Nobody cares or notices your hair or your cloths.
Next time you want to approach a women, make a fist with all your strenghts and count to 3. At three, lose your fist and walk up to the girl. When you let lose your fist, you will notice immediately that you lost the nerves and you feel relaxed. That relaxed vibe will be sensed by the girl and will work out positively