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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2016 3:05 am 
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Im going to prefix this by saying ive been around for a long time and know some stuff, but i dont think well on my feet. I'm OK if she's receptive, but if she makes it very clear she's not interested what do you do?

As an example I walk up along side a girl in the bar que and say something to her, forget what, but she literally turned the other way and just ignored me. I just don't know how to deal with that without looking like a rejected loser.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 20, 2016 5:32 am 
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A better way to approach this is to address the problem beforehand, which is your delivery and opening. I'm not sure how you opened and it's hard to give accurate feedback based on the information in your post as there are so many variables such as your voice tonality, eye contact, body language, etc.

If you she gave such a harsh rejection and ignored you right on the open, you can just open another girl and give a better open. Sometimes you can just plow through and break rapport with her or her friends to get more investment, but it's better to focus on doing a better open and open another girl.

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Looking like a rejected loser is apart of the growth man. That shit happens, but you have to shrug it off and approach the next woman. The thicker your skin the more success you'll have with women, and thats exactly what rejection does. Its thickens your skin. It hurts, just like exercise hurt, but its build you in the end.

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Im going to prefix this by saying ive been around for a long time and know some stuff, but i dont think well on my feet. I'm OK if she's receptive, but if she makes it very clear she's not interested what do you do?

As an example I walk up along side a girl in the bar que and say something to her, forget what, but she literally turned the other way and just ignored me. I just don't know how to deal with that without looking like a rejected loser.
You walk the other way standing in front of her again, and say, "No, you turned the wrong way, I'm here."

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