Dealing with the "why are you short/small " comment?



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PostPosted: Thu Aug 06, 2015 8:55 pm 
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Alright guys,

Im a short guy but not bad looking I would say. When I was on holiday in Germany earlier this year something happened that really bugged me/kinda upset me.

A pretty hot german girl came up to ask for a lighter, I gave her it. She said to me " why are you so small?" in a joky teasing manner. This did bug me, but I didnt have much of a comeback as I found her quite attractive.

She then realised she had maybe offended me and said I was really cute though and literally moved towards me and starting pinching my cheeks :o .

Something similar has happened before but I really dont know what to say, as I'm short and there isnt much I can do about it.

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'You couldn't handle me'

Then drop your DHV photo album and let her pick it up and she will go through the pics of you with strippers in car trips

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 07, 2015 7:16 am 
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There's a million different ways you could handle that. I don't see your question.

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YOU DON'T GIVE A COMEBACK!

The best thing you can do is walk away from that girl and start talking to another. Just because she's hot doesn't require that you have a comeback ready to win her over.

Look at her question..."Why are you short?"

Only a bitch or a fucking retard would ask that. Chances are that you don't want to waste your time with either one.

Talking to someone else proves that your time is too precious to put up with stupid comments.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 07, 2015 3:50 pm 
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It just kinda stunned me , I wasnt sure what to do.

If this happens again should I just walk?

Quite often girls will come up to me and say im sooo cute but almost in a negging way.


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Sounds to me like she was trying to flirt with you and you passed up on a lay by not overcoming the insecurity of the moment.

You build thicker skin man. You're going to be short its life embrace it and be the baddest short mother effer the world has ever seen. Plenty of short cool dudes pulling some decent women.

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To be honest I did think that dude, I just didnt know what to say??

How should I respond to that?


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To be honest I did think that dude, I just didnt know what to say??

How should I respond to that?
Its not what you say man its how you say it. And the mere fact that you were effected by it would suggest that there was nothing you could of said. It would of all be received the same way.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 07, 2015 6:40 pm 
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*Shrug shoulders*

Needing a comeback is jumping through her hoops

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It is the nature. I am short and you are stupid/ignorant/retarded/untimely ...


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 6:32 am 
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"why are you so short?"

"because God had to give other guys some advantage over me" then give a sexy confident wink.

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I'm a short guy (5'7-5'8) and girls have told me that before (especially Germans...damn their genetics). I usually respond with, "And what is it you like about short guys", this turns the table on them because your confident in your height to the point you would like a compliment. Shit test passed with flying f**king colors. My personal favorite is "my height isn't the only thing that's small (playful smirk)." Those are just some examples, basically you just need to display that your comfortable with yourself and do not give a shit about their stupid dream guy requirements. Good luck, and next time just say what comes to your head.

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I would have whacked my trousers down and presented her with the 30cm long portrait of Charles Darwin on my thigh and said "its natural selection baby". Then launch into some speech about biodiversity until she looked confused about my eloquently presented scientific explanation to her ridiculous fcuking question. Then I would pull my trousers back up trying incredibly hard not to park a huge winnie the pooh on her perfectly manicured german tootsies.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2015 5:33 pm 
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I'm short too, 5,65 (172cm), but can't remember last time i heard from girl that I'm too short. I like sports, lift weights, run, do BJJ. I have not by far bodybuilder body, but look adequately for someone with such hobbies. Sometimes, when girls talk about tall guys, I playfully say "hey, don't discriminate us, short guys". Responds I usually get "yeah, but you fix your height by your appearance". What they mean is that I'm short, yes, but at least not tiny.

If you take this PUA thing as path for whole self-improvement, this could help you.

I'll also recommend open mainly girls who are tall as you are, or smaller. At least until you are so confident, that lines like "why are you so small" can't hurt you anymore.

btw: guys, do not ask taller girl for relationship (neck really hurts when you must look up so often :DDD)


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Hey man, again I decided to take your question and answer it in
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