Hey guys,I have just returned from center of my city,and started to approach to the girls.This was my opening:I went there with my 3 friends.I saw two girls who were walking about 20 meters from us,and I approached right in front of them and said,,I just lost the bet with my friends there and I have to know you",than I said my name.Both girls were smiling and they introduced themselves to me.Than I guessed from where thy are,and I was correct,then I took hand from one girl and spinned her around.She was smiling,like the other girl and we had had some nice talk,but I got myself frizzed after some time,I just got scared if I blow up the whole thing,and I blew it up.My question is:what to do if you see you are doing well,and because of that good feeling,you just do not know what next to do?Thank you for answers

Just stop thinking

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Thank you,I will try that,for sure

Thinking is definitely the enemy of seduction. I'm an INTJ and my natural tendency is to look far into the future and over-analyze things and gather information. This sucks for dealing with girls, because I imagined all kinds of bad stuff happening. So I had to stop myself from thinking about the future with regards to girls. Just be in the moment and do what you know. I do my best moves when I just act on impulse with girls, with zero time to consider my actions. That's when I do more bold, crazy things and it works way better. That's more like how an ESTP or ESFP would operate, to not think about it and just act on impulse.

Your post reminded me of a scene from "Kung Fu Panda" (hope u've seen it). Theres a scene in it in which the Panda does a 6 ft high flick just to get cookies (he's very fond of eating). When his master mentions it he says No I am just getting the cookies, while still sittimg on that ledge in a The Master says "And yet u've made a 6ft high flick". As soon as he (Panda) realizes he's sitting 6 ft high from the ground he starts trembling and eventually falls

Its human nature. We often times do things we dont realize. And when we realize we are doing it, we'll never be able to actually do it. Tbh its one of my greatest problems too

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That one with Panda is good,I have seen that scene,I will find out how to turn my thinking off,thank you on
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That's why there is meditation to fix that problem. Go read Eckhart Tolle ,,The Power of Now ", it will make you be more present in the moment and, hopefully, help you get some girls.