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| master talkers | PostPosted: Wed Jul 29, 2015 12:11 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2015 7:27 pm Posts: 8 Website: http://www.mastertalkers.com/ Location: Sacramento & San Francisco | | Why rejection is a great thing
let us really go in depth to why rejection is good for you. this article will help you understand what happens when rejection is the outcome and how to cope with its effects in a way that actually helps you with your journey to progression
REJECTED
That’s right beautiful men that are reading this even the best of the best get rejected from time to time. Never the less I am here to inform you that rejection is not this big salivating monster that purposely wants to damage ego permanently, nor is it a monster that you must avoid at all cost, instead it’s something that will happen no matter how good or great you get at getting the girl(s) you want. I am here to dispel a lot of misconceptions you have about getting rejected and I’m also going to go over why reasons why some rejections are a beneficial to your overall improvement towards woman. So let the get starred shall we?
2 Misconceptions of Rejection:
Practice Makes Perfect:
Many men out there think that rejection is something that happens to you when you’re new at this and with enough practice you can get rid of it forever. This simply is not correct nor is it realistic. Whenever you do an approach there is a possibility that you might get rejected. Here are a few reasons why. She might be happily married, she might be in a committed relationship, she might be having a fucked up day, or perhaps she was just evicted out of place and has no where to sleep for night and isn’t considered with meeting someone new. If you notice all of those possible reasons have nothing to do with your precious “game.” Instead it has to do with circumstances beyond your control. In order to get better at attracting your type of woman you must understand that rejection comes with the territory. Just like getting hit comes with boxing there is no way around this so either except it or don’t participate. So disregard practice makes perfect instead adopt the idea that practice makes better.
I’m Afraid I might Say Something Stupid:
This is the most common phrase I hear when guys are either too afraid to approach and why they feel they are going to get rejected whenever they are conversing with a beautiful woman. Let me help you remedy this problem, here’s some good news for you gentlemen, YOU ARE A GUY YOU ARE 100% GURANTEED TO SAY SOME STUPID SHIT FROM TIME TO TIME. I feel so much better after saying that. I know men who have been married for 10 years plus and every once in a while they say the dumbest things I have ever heard in my life to their wives. Now does this mean their game is off or they need more “in-field” work? Of course not all it means is that stuff happens. Please don’t get me wrong, at time you will be smoother the Michael Jackson moon walking in space, but other times you will be wondering “what possessed me to say that”. This is all natural and expected and although there is no way to eliminate saying awful things completely, we can severely minimize some of the dumb shit that comes out of our mouth. We accomplish this by going out and gaining experience by approaching. When we practice our approaches consistently we begin to reduce our stress level (which is the main reason you say stupid shit during the approach) and by reducing stress and feeling more comfortable we slash or chances of saying something idiotic by a lot more than half.
The Great Thing About Rejection:
This is my favorite part because, right now your probably thinking, “ how is this guy going to convice me that rejection is a good thing when everytime it happens to me I can feel my soul and heart burning.” Reason 1: Well let me say this as you get better and better at this skill set you will come to realize that the enemy isn’t rejection but rather the conversation that lasts 20 or more that ends with sorry I have a boyfriend. This kind of rejection is the true enemy and not because she has a boyfriend (which you should be happy for her because it shows that there are some really good looking loyal women out there) but because you could have spent your valuable time chatting with a someone else who is single and also interested in you.
Reason 2:
Rejection teaches you to not be so dependent on a particular outcome (aka wanting to have sex with every woman you talk you) when you’ve racked up a decent amount of rejection as well as a few successful approaches, you start to realize you will be more successful when you’re not so foucused on getting every girl you talk to. This may seem hard to believe but when you have a genuine conversation with a woman who is engaged with what you are saying and you are just as engaged with her thoughts and opinons then that’s when the magic can truly take place. When you’re not trying to think 3 steps ahead of her and trying to figure out if you “game” is working or not, is when build that deep deep attraction.
Reason 3:
You learn from your mistakes. This cannot be over stated enough when you have failure after failure after failure you learn. YOU FUCKING LEARN. This is how anyone who has ever been great at anything got so damn good. Trail and error. So go out there and gain those experience points like your a World of War craft character.
Reason 4 :
This to me is the most important one of them all and that is it gets you in a talkative mood. Think about it this way every rejection is a warm-up and the more you warm up the better your approaches will get. Not many of us can go from 0 to 100 real quick (random Drake reference) so for those of us who can’t getting a few rejections in the beinging will only make us more potent the more we go out a approach. When my brother and I were working on this area of our lives he said something which is always in my head whenever I’m racking up rejections at being. “Sometimes you got to go through the weeds to get to the garden.” This is why rejection should be embraced and hopefully I have reprogrammed your views on this fear that many guy come across when they start to improve their dating life. Thank you for taking time out of your busy day to spend it with me I really appreciate that & as always peace and love
If you have any questions regarding the topic of how to improve you dating life or you may just want to get to know me on a deeper level, please be sure to send a message directly to my inbox and I will be glad to help out as much as I can.
Steaven Josey _________________ Learn How I pull Harder Than Most Guys on Here: MasterTalkers.com
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| nickpad1 | PostPosted: Wed Jul 29, 2015 2:14 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Jul 25, 2015 1:39 am Posts: 56 | | This was a really awesome guide to rejection my man. I appreciated your insight on the issue, and reason 2 was awesome IMO... i think we often times get too stuck up on approaching the girl as this absolute stud, when we fail to realize if we're just naturally attractive by having a normal conversation, stress is significantly lower. Solid as hell!
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