Hey,

Rarely come here for advice, but have lately come across a girl who reacts in a way I haven't experienced before and wondered if anyone else had.

Context
Met a cute small 8/9 in a club, spent an hour or two with her (till close) talking/kissing/cuddling etc. Couldn't get her back to mine, due to logistical problems, and her morals wouldn't allow her to come home with me same night. She was only with 1 other girlfriend, this is perhaps the reason why, perhaps she's just not the type (Some just don't, no matter what, it happens). Anyway I got her number, i'd carefully arranged a covert date whilst talking, so the number was by the by. Her friend actually instigated it - not that I wouldn't have got it regardless.

Issue
Been texting her, not too much, but the odd rapport building talk, as I feel in this case it is necessary. Issue is she seems very strung up, she is fine and having (tame) banter. However when I escalate it and tease (and not any strong tease, just a weak in passing tease) she gets uptight, defensive, and very stubborn. This is strange, I've not seen this before EVER. Because of this I don't know if I would/could ever commit to her monogamously, but nevertheless colour me intrigued.

If anyone has experienced this i'd like to hear from your experiences.

Please don't say "shit personality, move on to the next" I'm well aware of this and have no qualms or reason not too - I am merely interested

Building on that: if I do tease like that, she gets very uptight and changes to a negative confrontational demeanour in the conversation. I just push through it, obviously, acting if its nothing and downplaying it by not paying it any serious attention, saying sorry (like a stand up gentleman would), or engaging it in anyway.

I teased her further once but she was getting more and more worked up, then I ended the conversation, on what I believe to have been an an emotional spike. She changed her entire frame the next time we spoke - laughable.

Im done.

Yeah...I've come across this before. This may sound like an out there concept, but she doesn't like being teased. I've found that when I come across women like this, I don't tease them.

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Going by everything you are writing...you seem to be very attached and reactional towards her. She is enjoying poking you and having you stumble off your center. Unfortunately, deep down she doesnt want this.

If you want her great, if you dont, great. But decide on your terms.

Her behaviour is only an issue if it makes you feel reactional. Then maybe ask yourself why you might be responding as you do. In my experience, it sometimes gets to the point where i must school her on what i like about her, and what i DONT like about her behaviour.

Own it, and good luck. Stay solid. Stop taking it so seriously!

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This... Jack beat me to it.

Why poke a bear that doesn't like to be poked?