There is this girl in one of my classes. We both study Computer Science. Never been THAT interested in her, even though ive kinda of known her for like 2 years. i say "kind of" because just was aware that she was in one of my other classes and go in the same school. She is ok, cute and like 8/10 maybe, but never she never attracted me sexually.

However, recently started to give her a shot and play the game. While we were talking about some dogs, she gave me her number out of the blue for sending her a picture of my dog via SPAM. I've done some kino escalation touching her shoulders, waist, hands, arms and cheek kissing etc. Recently we got a coursework and she asked me if i could help her do her coursework in System Administration since i am very good in linux and was the only one who took an A in midterm. I said no dont have time for that.

My question is, should i call her some days later and ask her to bring her laptop and do some dirty work?

Thats extactly what you do man. Start as though you want to work. The excuse to come over and meet you. Preferably somewhere quiet or a little private. Then show her some cool videos or some shit. Be playful. Catch her eyes, hold her gaze, do the mystery method kiss routine. Case closed. She likes you, so go with it. There is nothing to lose by following this plan.

I'd have played that differently. The other poster here is suggesting you play games - it's just not necessary.

"Make you a deal: Buy me a beer after school and I'll help you after the beer."

You could have easily turned it into a date without losing any power or respect... And gotten yourself a free beer in the process.

I have just read that she asked you to help her and you said no, you havent got time for that. Thats just plain rude. Be playful. That will convey unneedy interest. Anything would work, likwise with what the other guy says.

I'm not sure if your actual attitude can be communicated considering there is a language barrier here so you may not be as fluid as you have the potential to be.

I'm with Charles. From what I read though man, you're playing games when you could just go straight ahead and go after what you want. Invite her out, or invite her "in" if thats what you want to do, but you don't have to ask us. You just have to take a step in the direction of what it is you want.

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I know how it sounds like by reading as a text, but saying it with a specific tone and gestures you can make it sound rudeless.
thanks man. actually what i usually do is saying the target that im good at giving massages, i start demonstrating my skills on her shoulder from behind. after some second or minutes, i kiss her on the shoulder to see her reaction, if i like her reaction, i would go for the kiss. it works almost all the time.

thats also good play. im gonna keep that in mind! thanks!