Hi everyone!

I have been trying quite a lot of direct day game, and a common response I get right after my opener (or later sometimes) is "I have a boyfriend". Obviously that is a lie most of the time, so how can I deal with it??

Thank you guys

brush it off , you don't care. Say something like " don't talk to me about your problems " directly after she says it . Done

If you are getting the "i have a boyfriend" line directly after opening her, you are a red flag to her! Simple as that.

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I use direct day game all the time. I make sure I build instant attraction so that they are less likely to pull out the "bf card". Even if they do, use a BOYFRIEND DESTROYER. There are plenty of those. Or you brush it off as if the "boyfriend" doesn't exist.

Build attraction 1st and emotional connection and then drop that bomb.

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Something like your hair are like my cats hair and she is dead now!

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I would probably opt not to say this.

Please. Do not listen to this advice.

For the love of mankind.

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You don't want to learn how to handle this response, you want to learn how to avoid getting it all together.

The fact of the matter is, more often than not when you are hit with this statement it is a subconscious test from her to see if you're worth her time. If you give up the moment this is said or if this statement affects your frame, your goal, and what you are trying to accomplish you are basically sub communicating that you are open to being led by her. Since one statement from her switched up your entire game plan. If you want to lead, you keep you goal in mind despite what it is being said to you at first. " I have a boyfriend" isn't always rejection, its usually a " What are you going to do now? "

When I was younger I would say " How long have you had that problem? " and depending on my frame i would either get a laughing response or a negative one. It doesn't matter what you say though; the goal is to be unmoved by her statement once she says it. If you're frame hasn't shifted, she will shift according to it. As I grew I stopped caring, I'd even ask her questions about the guy, because my ability to generate attraction isn't based on what i am talking about. Its based on the vibe that i am projecting.

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i agree with this, for now i say "dont worry, i'm not the jealous type." and i get a laugh out of that usually. but i just ignore it after that and change the subject. there is no #1 response.

build more comfort and you will avoid that shit test

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So many complicated answers...

One of my favourite ways to deal with the boyfriend objection is right after she says I have
a boyfriend, I say, "I have a dog. You should see him he's so cute I take him everywhere..."

And then continue with what you wanted to say.

The reason it works well is because you interrupt her whatever state she was in, and you show
your indifference.

Try it, I promise you'll overcome it.

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