| Dont open with "oh your _insert name here_ from that movie/show!"
Work in a manner that shows you are happy, people going into coffee shops expect to be met by moany unhappy student types who are boring.
So smile and try and have fun when working, regardless of hb celebs.
You're more than a coffee guy, so do everything at work as if its nothing (easy, not unimportant), because hey, you've got mountain biking to look forward to tomorrow, or some other interesting activity.
If you get any regulars, become friendly with them, but don't validate or be and afc. Dont "try and pick her up at work" you've got a job to do, its more important than her, plus the fact that you are constantly busy, is a surefire way to make sure you don't give her too much attention. As i mentioned before, become friendly with an hb celeb regular, wether its LJBF or not, establish a base, she may bring friends, and if she does, make a passing greeting because your busy "hey Lindsay" and purposefully rush off to attend to some work, this doesn't allow at the beginning, the chance or time for any introductions, leaving them to natter and chat about you if you opened them with an alpha smile and EC.
Use opinion questions, openers, to get on a slightly more personal level. If shes reading a book comment on it etc.
The main disadvantage is that you are a "slave" a mere "starbucks worker".Like i said with regulars, or even friendly strangers, produce social proof in front of targets, by doing all this, you should stand head and shoulders above your co-workers, in terms of being a happy, interesting person and therefore to a degree more attractive. Use any female co workers as social proof, it all adds up.
Hope this helps.
Student X... _________________ "Losers always whine about "their best", winners go home and fuck the prom Queen!"
"..Carla was the prom queen."
"Really?"
"Yeah" (Cocks gun)
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