Hello Gentlemen ,

Thats my introduction-background info you may need in order to answer my question or discuss my concern.
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So the problem is , quotting myself ...

"...I mentioned earlier i was into the game but not really familiar with all those millions techniques Mystery went into . We humans are not so complicated as he presents us to be . Anyway , i had a lot of k-closes and 1st dates but never really went into more or just for fclose.Many may argue about it and its quite normal , after all humanity is about the process of mating.It s a prime. The reason why is that if im not attracted by a girl's brain im not really getting a huge pleasure by f'ing her.To make long story short , i had a 2 year relationship which recently ended .Trying to approach now really brings up the anxiety i had before starting gaming back then. Even if I feel really confident about myself i still cant figure out why i cant approach, even though i know there is no reason not to...."

And no its not trauma from a past relationship that makes me feel insecure as a result of something that happened in the past .Even though we all have a trauma as a result to a past relationship whether we accept it or not. And it is not me , not having general confidence . Maybe not so confident approaching them for some particular reason , and thats why i request your help. Thank you!

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'...when you have eliminated all which is impossible, then whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth.' Sherlock Holmes

Rust, and you absorbed a ton of your gfs personality into yourself. It happens naturally from over exposure to something. Check out mirror neurons. You already know this...The best way to get over this stuff is to stfu about anxiety and dive into the pool.

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I am a hunter of human excellence. I seek out those individuals who break the norms
and demonstrate to all of us what’s really possible. I learn what those few
extraordinary individuals do that’s different from everybody else, and then emulate
them.

Make eye contact and say hi to EVERY person you see.

And incorporate approaching, old, women, men, young, hair,bald, dog, cat, into your daily life.

Go out to do something, hobbies, interests, etc. Then you won't have the same pressure these crazy guys who just think 1 approach, 2 approach, hot girl, hot girl, have. You'll just be going out to have fun.