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PostPosted: Thu Jan 29, 2015 3:24 pm 
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I am a University student, last year of Masters. In University we can get 50% cheaper transportation pass for bus, if we apply. I forgot about the deadline but the girl, also a student, who handles selling these passes in University, sent me an e-mail to remind me about the deadline. She had my email address because we have to apply via e-mail.

It's such a small, but nice thing to do. I replied - thanks, do you like chocolate?
I know, it was blunt, weird, but this approach seems to work for me more often than not. Questions out of the blue, bordering with stupidity. Kind of my style.

She replied - "no problem, glad I could help. Sure, I do :)"
So I brought her chocolate when I arrived in person to pay for the monthly transportation pass. She was alone. I made some small talk, about me being forgetful, made her laugh. Gave her the chocolate in the end. She said I did not have to do that.

Today I went there again, to pick up the pass. She seemed busy, other people were waiting in line. But she just kept smiling.

What does she think of me? A cute guy who gave me chocolate? And shows not much interest otherwise? Hmm...

I don't think I am in a bad situation now. But I don't know how to find out if she has a boyfriend, and how to ask her out. Found her on facebook, looked at her pictures. No obvious signs of her having a boyfriend. She is 22, I am 26.

I don't know how to proceed. I don't have an obvious reason to go to her office now, and I think asking her out via Facebook or e-mail would be inappropriate. Yes, I considered that for a minute. Scrapped the idea.

I plan on a meal in cafe, nothing fancy.

Any advice, gentlemen?


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 29, 2015 3:55 pm 
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The chocolate was unnecessary, but an OK gesture after she helped you out.

You should have gotten her number right then and there... If you don't take the risks you won't get the girl.

No need to ask about a boyfriend (why would you do that?) - just assume there isn't one... She'll advise you if there is and she doesn't want to go out.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2015 4:01 am 
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You should have gotten her number right then and there... If you don't take the risks you won't get the girl.
No need to ask about a boyfriend (why would you do that?) - just assume there isn't one... She'll advise you if there is and she doesn't want to go out.
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