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PostPosted: Tue Nov 18, 2014 9:23 pm 
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Hella all! First of all, I would like to say that I am very new to the community, so please bear with me and be nice :)
Second of all, I'm not sure this is the right place to post this topic, so don't get mad if I'm way off.
Thirdly, english is my second language, so you may detect some spelling-errors.

Now, to the actual question, but first some backstory (I'll keep it short); so i recently started college with one of my friends (I live in Denmark, but it is the equivillent to college), but we started in different classes. I quickly learned that he had a girl in his class that I am quite interested in, since we take sports-class together. We talked about this, and he told me that she had mentioned to him that she had found me a funny guy - so she has noticed me. My friend is eager to improve my chances with her any way he can, so I was thinking; how do I best so this? What should he do to make me seem like a higher-valued guy? And there is a party comming up soon, so how would be the best way to introduce myself to her - or how should I enter their set (if my friend and the girl are talking?)

Any advice is appreciated :)


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 18, 2014 9:29 pm 
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Well it's kind of hard to say, what your friend can say, since I don't know what youre all about. Its all about being congruent. If you are a small, thin guy he should probably not boast about how you're ex-military. Just figure out what your thing is (be it photography, filmmaking, sports, whatever) and tell him to tell her that how amazing you are at it.

Other then that, just let him introduce you. If she is already displaying interest, just be direct and show that you're interested. No reason to play it indirect if there is already something there.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 20, 2014 3:34 pm 
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Just hold off to the party and game her yourself. Dont let someone else do the work because it will end up back firing and come across like hes trying to set use up which will scare her off as girls dnt like to feel pressured.

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Just approach her and ask her out. Simple. Get rid of the grey area and just ask if you don't know.

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just talk to her bro - there are 3 billion women on this earth -sooner or later you are going to mess up...

just going in is better than not talking to her at all

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 2:28 pm 
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Just hold off to the party and game her yourself. Dont let someone else do the work because it will end up back firing and come across like hes trying to set use up which will scare her off as girls dnt like to feel pressured.

This -- as soon as you get other people trying to hook you up or build you up, it just usually doesn't work right. You lose control.

You want to be in control here.

Man up, talk to her, make her laugh and build some interest, then ask her out.


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