Warning long post but I think you will find it worth the read

I heard this quote on a hidden camera TV show once 3 of this guys friends were watching this him. The bet was that if he could get Simone to hold is hand. He immediately walked up between 2 from behind after the passed him he didn't say a word grabbed both their hands and walked and talked with them while holding hands. In reference to this guy his friend remarked there is no fear.

That quote hit me like a ton of bricks.

All these PUA methods and forms and PUA philosophy all boils down to one thing Fear!

First off I will say there are other factors at work here however the number 1 factor for rejection or lack of approach or a bad game is FEAR.

Afraid of what though? I mean seriously this has to be the stupidest fear ever. Courageous men will speak their opinion save people climb mountains jump out of planes race cars and any number of dangerous activities but approaching a woman will bring them to the their knees. I really don't get it. What harm comes to you from being rejected? You weren't going out with this girl before you talk to her she rejects you and you aren't going out now nothing changes. No harm came to you you are the same as you were before only maybe a little wiser as you learn from your mistakes. People will say my pride will get hurt or I will look stupid infront of my friends. Ok let's say you look stupid well at least you aren't a coward and really does cowering away from an opportunity improve your pride? Because if it does you have bigger problems than talking to girls.

To paraphrase Teddy Roosevelt. "It is not the critic that counts but the man in the arena as he has much more character than those poor souls that know neither rejection nor acceptance.

A woman will tell you over and over and over again the first thing they look for in a man in the pick up phase is absolute confidence without being creepy. Think of wemon like they are Freddy Kruger from nightmare on elm street. Just as he can only harm you if you fear him a girl is much more likely to reject you if you fear her. It just like the the song before Freddy kill some one you die inside as you fear rejection you hear:

1 2 rejections coming for you
3 4 sitin at the bar
5 6 grab you mixed drink
7 8 up real late (full of regret)
9 10 never see her again

I say it's a load of bull my friends you have nothing to fear. This is a flesh and blood human being she may have lady parts but she is still human and does not deserve to be put on a pedestal. Wemon are like fear detectors. They can make men afraid and feel insecure they know it and they love it. Be the man she can't knock out your confidence is so high when she tests you chin get back up and keep movement forward (don't be creepy though know when the battle has been lost) break down that first barrier of defense and win her over.

Wemon will beat you down and keep you down if you let them. Don't fear them and let them destroy your confidence.

Good insights. It is true. And after the first approach or two of the day, the false fear vanishes and all you want to do is talk to more girls.