Hi,

Here is the situation I go out often with a group of friend with around four girls. This gives me social proof but here is my problem. Most of the time in Nightclubs I open with opinion opener but since when I am with a group of friend is weird to ask other people opinion when you have a group of people with you who can give you their opinion. If either I receive an IOI or not by a girl in a 2 set or in a group, what kind of opener should I use if I can't use opinion opener. Any openers to suggest?

"Hi, how are you?"

1) Stop waiting for IOIs before approaching.

2) Stop using opinion openers, they are indirect and lame. You can get away with them for day game, but they generally suck.

3) You don't need an opener in nightclubs. Just start dancing, make eye contact with the girl and pull her towards you with a high five. Club game is 90% non-verbal. Let your body do the talking.

4) Go direct. Just say "hi whats your name".

5) Indirect openers just make it more difficult for you to transition into a sexual frame. So, if you use the opinion opener, then you finish that conversation, you will run out of things to say. The girl then feels your awkwardness, because you haven't demonstrated any sexual intent, so she leaves and goes back to her friends. Girls decide very quickly whether you are hot or not. Stop wasting time finding BS wishy washy excuses to open and just fucking open. The longer you wait to show your intent, the more likely the girl will reject you. Stop being scared of showing sexual intent.

HF

Opinion openers are the stupidest things ever. Not used a single one.

To OP it is good to understand what I think the previous poster means by "direct". It simple means not making excuses for talking to someone. You want to and that's all the reason you need. If you watch YouTube you may get the impression that direct means running up and telling them you want to fuck them. Just show in your words and body that you are interested in her words and body.