I just had my 25th bday last weekend and I went out to the bar. There was plenty of fine woman out there but I've only been to the bar like 5 times and am a little nervous about it. How do you approach girls in a loud bar? I noticed guys just grabbing on girls and getting pushed away a lot. Am I supposed to be super aggressive like that?!

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No, obviously that's not working for those chumps, why would you think that would work for you?

K-I-S-S (keep it simple stupid)

Start with simple eye contact, NOT date rape stare.

If you get a positive reaction......

Go Say Hello
Yeah, it's that simple. You need to put your self assured face on, and approach her. Start with "Hi." If she finds you attractive, she'll listen to your bullshit line.

Just be genuine. Make a joke about the bar you're in, like commenting on the DJ's insistence on playing 80's top 40. Or the couple making out by the toilets (hopefully it's not her drunken BFF). Make it sound as witty and effortless as you can muster. If she cracks half a smile, you're in.

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Personally I never start any kind of touching or escalation until I get a laugh or a smile or some kind of signal (other than like tapping on the shoulder or something). Once that goes I continue escalating, step by step accordingly. As for approaching, I usually comment on something she's wearing, what she's drinking etc. If it's a girl drinking jack and coke or something like that I'll open with something like "Jack and coke? my kinda woman" with a smile and good eye contact. Or if you can tell she has a good sense of fashion you can come in with "I like your style. I'm breedlove, it's nice to meet a girl that understands that yoga pants aren't every day attire". Again, said with a smile and good eye contact, which is the ost important part. And both of these lines are not typical, express some interest but not much, and give her a sense of being a compliment, but not just coming right out and saying that she's beautiful or something like that, which I personally don't like to do. I'd much rather come in and talk about an item or her sense of style rather than tell her she's cute.